How do you deal with someone who intelligently ignores you?

The most painful thing in relationships is when we meet with someone and give him a large part of our attention and emotions, and after a while, with or without reason, he ignores, and ignoring is the most cruel act and psychological harm to the person, and the goal is to weaken the other party to control him or to ignore an actual result. The coldness of emotions and the two cases is very bad that goes to hell in the relationship, so we have to know how to respond to this action:

If you can confront this person with his problem with you and what are the reasons for ignoring him, do, but if his answer is that he is not ignoring you while trying to convince you that you are delusional, stop trying to solve in the manner of admonition and go to the response
The response to ignoring should be coldness and not insisting on catching up with the person who ignores you

You should not draw the person’s attention that you are ignoring for a temporary period, as if you are revealing your plan to him, so the results will be counterproductive to you
Take care of your appearance as if you are in an excellent psychological condition and go out with friends, but do not do this in order to arouse his jealousy, but because you will enjoy and will not limit your thinking in waiting for his calls

- At some point of weakness, you may tend to reprimand yourself and you have to bear the alienation of others from you, do not do that, but it is a case of justifying yourself for your weakness and surrender
- Do not be rude in the way of refusal, such as canceling the call or turning off your phone, on the contrary, act as if you are enjoying his call and as if you are not paying attention to his coldness towards you, which gives him the impression that you are happy and strong
The ignoring that you have to practice, just stop completely catching up with him and stop initiating you in a call or message.

When you respond to ignoring by ignoring, know that the person you will ignore will be angry with you, because the person who initiates ignoring is waiting to see you weak and resigned and does not accept to be ignored by you, and perhaps he will annoy you in a way other than ignoring
Avoid quarrels with him when he tries to show his anger over what you did and tell you that you are a bad person because you ignore him.

- When he shows his anger at you, it means that you are the one controlling the relationship now, and you should try to dialogue with him, relieve his anger, solve problems and restore the relationship as it was without informing him of your plan. You do not have to give justifications for what you did because you were not the initiator and if he did not realize His mistake, then, there is no understanding, and if there is no understanding, there is no need for a relationship.

Edited by

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed