No matter how good you are, there are those who hate you.. What is the secret of others' hatred of us? And how do we know who hates us?

We often have a pressing question we ask ourselves as a result of our natural relationships, why does this person hate me? Why does he wish me insult and seek her?
And we do not find a logical answer to this type of question, as it is not dependent on our actions only, but rather is related to the behavior and apparent feelings of others.
Hate is one of the types of feelings and emotions that overcome the mind, and it usually appears in the form of rude actions and words and may be highly emotional at times, and in others it is in the form of ignoring, and sometimes this emotion does not accompany any external actions, but remains buried inside. The hater. Scientifically, scientists have discovered that there are areas in the brain responsible for these feelings, and they begin to appear there before they appear in the form of actions and actions. These centers in the brain are activated according to the degree of hatred.
Psychologically, it is the result of behavior related to our inner feelings towards the other person as a result of the emotions we hide that help to generate hatred, and one of these feelings is fear. In his social relations or owns a new car...
And if we notice that most of the basic feelings were not born with the intention of the hated person, he is a manager who does his work, or a diligent or beloved person with many relationships, or a wealthy person who owns a car. The other party, such as the hated person assaulting him, stealing him, transmitting his news to his manager at work, or inciting those around him to leave him alone.
Here are the most important signs that indicate hate:

Not accepting your opinions

If you were in one of the sessions, note the extent to which he accepts and agrees with your opinions. If he is always rejecting and opposing them without justification and always, then it is a metaphor for feelings of hatred for you. Here, too, a distinction must be made between that he is a hater or that he is by nature a person who opposes opinions and thinks that he is always right in his opinion.
impression:

Many people share their impressions of people with those close to them, friends, family, or some acquaintances and colleagues, so knowing what someone who hates you says about you with those around him will give you decisive evidence of this person’s feelings towards you or your observation of them in taking a prior position on you without your knowledge.
actions:

Notice how this person behaves with you, the behaviors give a clear impression to you about how people feel about you, for example, ignoring the response to you or staying away from opening a conversation with you, this is evidence of hatred, or scrutinizing the way he talks to you and comparing it with the way he talks with others, also cold or fake smiles and interaction Passively with you during the dialogue is considered hate evidence.
Misinterpreting what you say:

Whatever you say, and whatever you mention, it will always have a negative interpretation, and it carries more than it should and bears the opposite direction from your intention or it did not even cross your mind.
Sometimes the behavior becomes hostile without an occasion: this situation does not need an explanation, the hater either says it explicitly to you that he hates you. Or act in a clear way, revealed by movement of the face, or words.
Not feeling comfortable with you:

And this act is accurate in its entirety, so you have to watch if you are alone in a place and observe his behavior, does he feel comfortable, and are you personally comfortable with this session or not? But you must differentiate between a person who hates and hates you, and a person who is shy and introverted by nature.
Justifications made:

He may make a lot of declaring in front of people that you are the one who hates him and he does not know the reason for your hatred of him. This is justification for himself before justifying in front of you the reason for his hatred of you and before making any action from him is clear towards you, he and you know very well that he is not right and his feelings have no reason Realistically and realistically from you.
And the Faisal here is reconciliation with oneself. If you are not reconciled with yourself, you will certainly not be reconciled with others, and you can hate anyone without clear reasons, and the missing thing does not give him for sure. You do not love yourself, so how do you love others?

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Psychology Consultant

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed