Lapho abantu sebelutheka kuwe futhi benamathela kuwe?

1- Musa ukweqa isilulumagama semizwa kanye nekhono lokuveza imizwa yakho kubo.

2- Yamukela ukuthi abanye bahlukile kuwe

3- Zivumelanise nezimo nabantu futhi ube nekhono lokuzivumelanisa nabo

4- Yiba lula ekusebenzelaneni kwakho futhi ungasheshi ukucasuka

5- Jabula futhi wabelane ngezinjabulo zakho, hhayi kuphela izinkinga nezinkinga zakho

6- Nikeza ngaphandle kokulindela ukubuyiselwa okuthile

7-Basize ekuhluphekeni kwabo sengathi udaba lungolwakho

8- Bekezela futhi ukhohlwe ukona

9- Ukwazi ukwahlulela abalingiswa babanye ngendlela efanele

12- Yazi ukuthi ungasho nini cha kuwena nakwabanye

13- Yiba nobuhlakani futhi uzwele ekusebenzelaneni kwakho nabanye

14- Bheka okuhle kwabo futhi ufunde kubo

15- Ungabheki ama-negative abantu futhi ubaphathe, futhi ungalindeli okubi kubo, ngoba nawe awunawo amaphutha.

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Ubhekana kanjani nabalingiswa abangaqondakali?

Kunini lapho abantu bethi usezingeni eliphezulu?

Ingabe uthando lungaphenduka lube umlutha

Uthola kanjani ukuthi indoda iyakuxhaphaza?

Ungaba kanjani isijeziso esinzima kakhulu kumuntu omthandayo futhi ukwenze phansi?

Yini ekwenza ubuyele kumuntu onqume ukumdedela?

Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ovusa inkanuko?

Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ogcwele intukuthelo?

Yiziphi izizathu eziholela ekupheleni kobudlelwane?