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Ukuziphatha okune kokuphila impilo engajabulisi nomlingani

Ukuziphatha okune kokuphila impilo engajabulisi nomlingani

Ukuziphatha okune kokuphila impilo engajabulisi nomlingani

Ukuqokomisa amaphutha alula navamile enziwa eminye imibhangqwana kungasiza ekuqwashiseni futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuthuthukise ubudlelwano nabalingani babo bokuphila. Ngokukachwepheshe wezobudlelwano bomphakathi nomndeni uStephen Ing esihlokweni esishicilelwe yi-Psychology Today, ukunakekela nokuvikela ubudlelwano bomndeni kudinga ukuqwashisa ngamaphutha amaningana avamile alula kakhulu ukuze uwagweme ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esijabulisayo futhi uphila ukuphila okujabulisayo. ukuphila okujabulisayo.

1. Izifiso ezingenangqondo

Eminye imibhangqwana yenza iphutha elivamile lokweqisa lokho abakulindele futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi ifune omunye umuntu ukuba abe ohamba phambili kukho konke, isibonelo, ofaneleka, ohlakaniphile, onengqondo, ongokomoya kanye nemizwelo. U-Eng weluleka ngokuthi kufanele (a) bavume ukuthi bakhethe umuntu ongafanele njengomngane womshado noma (b) basebenzelane ngendlela enengqondo nendoda futhi bafunde ukuyithanda ngenxa yalokho ayikho, futhi bazivumelanise nalokho abangakwazi ukukwenza.

2. Isifaniso

Eminye imibhangqwana yenza iphutha elilula kodwa elibalulekile lokunganeliseki ngaphandle uma abalingani babo benekhophi enembile yemizwa yabo, imibono, izifiso, kanye nokuthambekela kwezombusazwe noma kwezemidlalo. Ukuba nomyeni noma inkosikazi efanayo kungaba kude neqiniso. Imibhangqwana kufanele yazi ukuthi basebudlelwaneni obubandakanyayo, okusho ukuzama ukuthola izindawo ezihambisanayo, ezingagqagqani noma ezifanayo zamandla, ikhono, kanye nentshisekelo.

3. Ukuphishekela ukuphelela

Eminye imibhangqwana ifuna ukuphelela ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni komlingani wabo wokuphila, kuyilapho ukuphishekela ukuphelela kuholela ekuzizweni kwengcindezi nomthwalo owengeziwe, okuholela ekuphazamisekeni noma ekukhungathekeni nasekuhlulekeni kobudlelwane. Ongoti bacebisana ngokuthi kulungile ukuthi umuntu nomlingani wakhe babe namaphutha angabalulekile, omunye nomunye azizwe emthanda futhi amemukele njengoba enjalo ngaphandle kokuzenzisa noma ukuzenzisa.

4. Ukungavumeli nokucekela phansi ubungane bangaphandle

Kuvamile ukuthi imibhangqwana ibizane ngokuthi "umngane omkhulu" empilweni. Nakuba kukuhle ukuba indoda ibe umngane omkhulu wenkosikazi, kubalulekile futhi ukukhuthaza ubungane bayo nabalingani bayo besifazane, omakhelwane nezihlobo zayo zesifazane. Ukuba nomona ngomyeni noma inkosikazi enabanye abangani kuwukuzikhohlisa, ngoba abantu abanobungane obuqinile nobuthembekile bajabule kakhudlwana, bayavumelana nezimo, futhi bahileleke kwezinye izici zokuphila kwabo.

Phila futhi uvumele ukuphila

Uma umgomo womuntu uwukwakha umndeni ojabulayo obudlelwane babo busekelwe ezisekelweni eziqinile zothando, inhlonipho nokuqonda, khona-ke kumelwe akhe izimo nendawo lapho umlingani wakhe wokuphila ezizwa elondekile, elondekile futhi ezinzile ngenxa nje yokuthi usebenzelana nemvelo yakhe. uhlaka olungokwemvelo nolwenhloso olusekelwe ekwamukeleni omunye njengoba enjalo.

URyan Sheikh Mohammed

IPhini loMhleli oMkhulu kanye neNhloko yoMnyango Wezobudlelwano, iBachelor of Civil Engineering - Umnyango weTopography - Inyuvesi yaseTishreen Uqeqeshelwe ukuzithuthukisa

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