Ungaba kanjani umcabango oqondile

1- Kholelwa wena kanye namakhono akho

2- Thembeka kubantu abacabanga kahle futhi ugweme ama-pessimist

3- Gcina ukubukeka kwakho kwangaphandle, ngoba lokho kukhombisa ukucabanga kwakho nendlela abantu abakubuka ngayo

4 - Ungavilaphi futhi uhlehlise ukwenza lokho ofuna ukukwenza

5- Bhekana nemicabango yakho emibi futhi uyikhiphe ngokuphelele