mayelana nokukhohlwa

Wayeyinsizwa ephelelwe ithemba eneminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala lapho owesifazane owayemthanda kakhulu emtshela ukuthi ubambe impilo ngocu. Yebo, wayefuna ukuphila; Impilo eyamnika injabulo. Kodwa waqaphela ukuthi inkulumo ethi “ngifuna ukuphila” yayilukwe ngolwembu oluntekenteke lwesicabucabu.” Kuthatha isikhathi esincane kakhulu ukuba umuntu azithole esekwelinye icala lapho yonke into enothando, ukuqiniseka, ukholo nomlando ingenakho. okusho kusaba.

Zonke izindaba zothando zisekelwe esivumelwaneni esingabhalwanga esenziwe yizithandani ezimbili emasontweni okuqala obudlelwane babo. Baphila lesi sikhathi ephusheni, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo - futhi ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwabo - basendleleni yokubhala imigomo enemininingwane yenkontileka ezobahlanganisa.

O bathandi, qaphelani lesi sikhathi esiyingozi! Uma unikeza elinye iqembu isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni, kufanele ukwenze ukuphila kwakho konke, kungenjalo uzosolwa ngokungabi naluthando nokukhaphela.

Milan Kundera