A smart woman chooses a nervous man.. Magical ways to deal with a nervous husband

Do not be surprised, my dear, when you know the following details.. Many researches and psychological studies have shown that a smart woman is the one who chooses a nervous, moody man over a calm, cheerful husband for her!!

According to studies, a calm, cheerful man is a mysterious man, who can calculate his steps, and knows when to make concessions to a woman, and when to get angry, and above all that he is more stubborn than nervous temperament! Contrary to the nervous and moody who thinks by his own decisions that by his behavior, his nervousness and his temperament, he imposes his personality on the woman, without his knowledge that he reveals to her the keys to his personality and his weaknesses, which enables the intelligent woman to deal with these keys comfortably and calmly.

less stubborn

Studies in psychology confirm that the nervous man is easy to lead, he is kind-hearted, social, and quick to compliment, compared to the quiet fun who is fully aware of his times of anger and the times when he makes slight concessions in favor of the wife.. Studies also say that the woman who tends to choose a frowning and nervous husband is A female characterized by innate intelligence, because she realizes by female instinct that he is the right husband, the least stubborn, who facilitates his leadership and control of his psychological fluctuations by drowning him in an abundance of love, tenderness and the charm of femininity.

7 ways

The husband’s nervousness and temperament are among the things that a woman can deal with intelligently, and it is important that the choice be linked first to the issue of the husband’s good religion and morals, and then the wife must take an appropriate way to extinguish the mood and nervousness from her husband’s behavior, so she must follow some of the means that help her to rid him of cases His anger for trivial reasons, or his mood swings without the slightest reason for that, and among those means:

Know what triggers his nervousness and mood

A smart woman can know the behaviors that provoke her husband’s nervousness and exacerbate his mood, through the ten between them.. If your husband is nervous and moody, avoid doing everything that provokes his nervousness, if, for example, he is one of those whose mood changes when food is late for him, or when you leave the house So, strive to prepare food on time, and stay at home, or reduce your visits to family and friends, and make them within the limits of absolute necessity.

Beware issuing advice and apologies
When your husband is nervous, he does not want to hear advice or directions, and the appropriate thing at the time is to avoid talking to him with some guiding words, so do not tell him (calm down - stop - it is enough) or (it is simple that is not worth your anger and nervousness) or even (keep your health). Or other words that may contribute to increasing his nervousness.. All you have to do then either remain calm, or use some loose phrases such as (as you like) or (if he wants, the matter will change as you want) .. and so on.. as it should To avoid apologizing to him a lot, with or without reason, especially if he is in a moment of sudden mood swings.

Controlling your emotions is not enough
It is true that controlling your emotions, and not confronting him, and responding to him with passive words, helps to reduce his anger, but you may be able to quench his anger volcano by controlling the emotions of your body, through body language, so do not look at him with contempt and sarcasm, and do not give him a look of contempt and tightness, or move your lips - for example. In a way that increases his mood and anger.

Tell him in moments of peace
By this, we do not mean that you resort to blaming him and blaming him, but rather expressing your love to him and accepting him as he is, and asking him to show you the types of things that he hates or that increase his nervousness in case you do them at the time of his anger, with the necessity of this being during the moments of calm between you, to get everything from him.

Remember his beautiful traits
Do not tempt your chest and mind with the quarrels and nervousness of your husband, and leave room for him, and remember that he loves you, otherwise he would not have been associated with you. Do not limit your thinking to his negative nervousness and temperament.

Be fun and responsible
Softening the family atmosphere with fun and humor, will overcome - in many cases - the cases of despondency and despair imposed by the conditions of living, work and responsibility, and you can play this role in some situations. And anger leads to contentment and acceptance, just be fun always, and adapt to his mood in a positive and responsible manner.

Remember, he is not a pharaoh
Whatever your husband’s nervousness and temperament, remember that he is human, and he may be affected by work and living problems, or other circumstances, and know that he is your husband and the father of your children, and he will not be - no matter how he is - another pharaoh. A wife who treats God, and draws close to Him with His care, in anticipation of the Noble Face of God.. So, being a yes obedient wife, you will have a yes husband and companion.

Hiss
There remains one last thing - dear wife - to whisper in secret in your ear, so that the husband does not know the conspiracy of great love that you harbor for him, and that you are trying to possess with it. Your home is on a library that discusses something about family matters and couples’ relationships, to help you pass the delicious journey of a lifetime with a steady love, unshakable by all circumstances and influences.