How to build a stable family with your husband without differences?
How to build a stable family with your husband without differences?
How to build a stable family with your husband without differences?
Good listening and objective complaint
For example, a man can listen well to his wife’s problem without showing boredom or insulting the complaint as a kind of attention and friendliness, and the wife should reduce harsh criticism and attacks on her husband’s personality and only display her annoyance about the situation itself.
Not focusing on issues that provoke a fight between spouses
Such as raising children, household expenses and household chores, but rather focus on points of agreement and compatibility between them.
Extinguishing the fire of battle
And that is the ability to calm oneself and calm the other party with sympathy and good listening to each other. This leads to the opportunity to search for a way to resolve the conflict in an effective and not emotional way, and thus overcome all subsequent disputes in general.
Clearing the mind of negative thoughts
Such negative emotional thoughts that are similar to saying (I do not deserve such treatment) provoke destructive feelings, the wife feels that she is a victim, and holding onto these thoughts and feeling anger and embarrassment of dignity complicates matters. And with the help of both parties themselves in restoring positive attitudes in their minds that relieve feelings of injustice and oppression and thus undo harsh judgments.
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