The steps of catching the groom

How do you hunt a groom? Do not be surprised by the question, as it is not inspired by my imagination. This question is the title of the book written by the writer Amal Mahmoud, and through its pages she provided a set of advice for girls on how to seek marriage or association, and during the past period, the phenomenon of the high age of marriage has spread, and the issue of marriage has become Connection is a problem that worries many girls. Many women, especially those who are confident of their mental and psychological abilities and are confident in themselves, no longer have marriage offices or electronic matchmakers, so they are looking for husbands themselves in order to seek livelihood; Marriage is what is livelihood.

Do not be surprised how many marriages took place through parties or public events. The areas of acquaintance are now more developed, and a psychological study confirmed that it is necessary for a girl to reconcile with herself at every step she takes. Here are the steps to catching the groom:

• Do not lose hope and do not be sad and lament your luck at the late age of your marriage, the control of such thoughts negatively affects your psychological state and the way you deal with those around you, which may alienate some of you, as they may think that you are depressing or antisocial.

• Do not show your eagerness to marry, and do not act as if you are obsessed with the obsession of “Where is the groom, I want him right now”, and the alternative to that is that you will open up to a friend, relative, or any of your co-workers as a disgrace, not out of a sense of loss of self-confidence.

• Integrating into daily and social life is the shortest way to get you out of the state of stagnation that makes you easy prey to depression and pushes you to take care of your beauty and elegance, but this does not mean that you rush behind the idea that the groom may be hiding behind the door” and rush out to go out a lot and spend evenings with those you know or don’t know because This may put your reputation at risk. Deliberation and calmness are your only key to getting past this stage that passes like a summer cloud when you find the groom and the good husband that God has written for you.

• Participation in parties and social events for female colleagues. Occasions, especially weddings, are one of the most common ways in which the groom looks for his bride. Be always participating in such parties and make sure to appear with a calm and charming smile.

• Going to mosques and attending science classes, as many marriages take place in this way, when the mother of the groom attends a science class and sees a girl who likes her and chooses her for her son, or she asks the audience in the mosque about a suitable bride for her son.

Finally, I would like to tell you that marriage is a decree and predestination, and it is written by God on a specific date, so you have to be satisfied, patient and supplicate, as these are essential keys to obtaining a righteous husband with whom you will spend the rest of your life.