Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world.. How do you control your world yourself?

Your outer world is the way people deal with you, your husband and children, your family and neighbours, your friends and co-workers... Well, the way they deal with you is a mirror image of your dealings with yourself, so your honor is in you and that is in you.
When your husband, your family, your family and your neighbors treat you aggressively, this is a sign of your hostility towards them and yourself.
And when they treat you with hate, you have already hated them and yourself, and they feel that they hate you.
And when they treat you with superiority and contempt, humiliate and oppress you, this is a reflection in the mirror of that for yourself and your contempt for it, and it is also a reflection of your view of yourself as an insignificant person who does not deserve respect.

And if you find that your outer world is overflowing with love, respect and appreciation, and everyone treats you as a loving, dear, giving woman with dignity, then know that in your inner world you live in a state of balance, peace and harmony with yourself. They are around you, so don't hurt them even with a look, you meet their kindness with love, their giving with gratitude, and their abuse with forgiveness, so they love you and respect you and turn a blind eye to your lapses.

Your outer world is a reflection of your soul, so if you find it dark, unjust and cruel, ask your soul why you are unjust to it, harsh with it until it became dark and gloomy, and if you find the answer, change yourself, open the windows of your soul to love, giving, harmony and serenity...