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Ten things you need to know about attachment
Ten things you need to know about attachment
Ten things you need to know about attachment
1- A man falls in love by looking, a woman falls by hearing
2- A man is rarely faithful in love, but a woman is often faithful
3- Love ignites when it is difficult or impossible to meet, as the soul loves everything that is forbidden and desires to obtain it
4- Man, from his childhood, is programmed on things by society, the environment, family and friends, and he has needs, standards, descriptions, recipes, and evaluations by which he evaluates people and things.
5- Most people like the idea that they have in their imagination about the person instead of the person’s love for himself and his personality and as it is, and the biggest evidence is that they love people who are far from them and did not know them well and did not even see them fully or met them directly
6- Most cases of attachment occur due to focusing on the person and thinking deeply about him before bedtime, as well as upon awakening
7- Weak self-confidence and attachment are related to each other, as the more confident you are in yourself, the less attached you are to people
8- Someone may convince you that he has no similarity, or you may imagine that and convince yourself of it. If you believe that and believe it, attachment occurs, but you may clash with reality.
9- When the attachment is due to something a person owns, whether it is money, beauty, status, etc., it is easy to disengage when you find an alternative or better than the one that made you attached to it. But if you are attached to him because of his idea and style, then you must surpass him by learning more, awareness, awareness and deep understanding.
10- Telling the person that you are related to him may help you, either by reducing the burden inside you or because of the person’s reaction. Your confession may make him act in a way that you may not like or alienate from him.