How to deal with a grumpy and boring husband

“I feel depressed and it kills me.” These words are repeated by many wives, because the husband does not have a role in family life as the wife wishes. Rather, the husband is characterized by a very depressing character that gives a frown throughout the house as soon as he enters, the sad calm prevails over the place and the residents of the place, because The husband bears the features of his face number “111”, indicating the frowning of the forehead and the kosharyah.

Some men consider this one of the requirements of prestige that must be among family members, as sometimes it is the inherited social template between fathers and sons, that if a man simplifies with his family and brings pleasure to them, his prestige is lost, and this is a wrong concept but it is widespread, or may It is nature in the human being, but the problem is that the wife feels that she is alone with this man who does not share any sweet moment with her, and does not see in life anything but duties and burdens without any moments of self-recreation with the closest people to her, and this type of husbands needs tact in dealing.

That is why we put some advice in the hands of the wife so that she can correct the nature of her husband, and the ship of life can proceed with the least amount of inconvenience:

1- If you do not like your house to remain gloomy and silent like this, then qualify yourself that you will take the role of the initiator in this matter, and you will cut out funny situations and open up interesting topics with him.

2- Make sure that you and your family have any non-routine activity, and you will bear the full responsibility for preparing for that, such as arranging a picnic at the end of the week in any pleasant place, and playing together with the children.

3- Take care that there are common hobbies between you, such as drawing or simple decoration, or that you both watch TV or share your children watching some cartoon movies, for example, the activities of children are joyful in themselves, and even if your husband does not participate with you, you are thus relieved of yourself And about your children.

4- Make sure that you have a circle of acquaintances such as relatives, friends or some close neighbors, so that you can go out with them or visit them and derive pleasure from that, so that all entertainment does not become limited to your husband only, who may disappoint you sometimes and thus remain within the circle of depression.

5- Try as much as possible to have mutual friends, you and your husband, who organize mutual family visits with them, even at intervals, as such visits change a lot from the routine and monotony of life and the usual conversations.

6- You must have interests or hobbies that you enjoy while you practice them, as these things do not make you obliged to wait for someone to make you happy or bring joy to you.

7- Finally, if you are overwhelmed with tricks and your husband’s character is the dominant one, count this with God. Yes, it is one of the husband’s duties with regard to the wife to comfort her and comfort her.