How do you affect people and be most important to them?

For many people, the love of people is very important, and rather the most important motive in their lives, and some of them succeed in doing so. And some of them fail miserably

Dealing with people is more an art than a science, so you should remember while dealing with people that you are not dealing with people of logic; But the people of emotions and feeling.

How do you win people's love for you easily? ! .

Show interest in people If we want to win friends, let us put ourselves at the service of other people, and let us extend to them a sincere and useful hand free of selfishness and self-interest.

Smile Facial expressions speak in a voice deeper than the tongue, for this reason make your smile permanent for everyone who receives it.

Call the other person your favorite name The most beautiful thing that our ears can hear are our names.

Ask your interviewer questions that you think he or she will be happy to answer :

Encourage him to talk about himself and his work and the field in which he specializes, and remember that your speaker cares about himself, his desires and his problems a hundred times more than he cares about you and your problems. Be a good listener, and encourage the speaker to talk about himself.

Speak to your speaker If you can, try to find out what makes the other person happy before meeting them

Why do you always talk about what you love? Obviously, you love what you love and will always love it, but your speaker may not share this love with you, so the best way to influence the other person is to talk to him about what he loves and desires, and show him how to obtain it.

We all love to feel appreciated. Always make the other person feel important, and let's give others what we like to be given

 “To be important, be interested.”

Be humble as much as you can, for people are alienated from those who are superior to them: And avoid talking about your advantages, your virtues and your achievements, and let the other person notice them, but show your interest and appreciation for every detail of his work, no matter how simple it is for you.