How do you deal with a traitorous man after a breakup?
How do you deal with a traitorous man after a breakup?
How do you deal with a traitorous man after a breakup?
Don't wait
Full conviction that your decision to abandon him is a right decision, do not wait for a moment for him to return to you while he is remorseful and pleading under your feet, if that is possible, but make yourself believe that this abandonment is final, you will cause him an unexpected shock.
take care of your self
Taking care of your appearance is one of the most important steps that restores you strength and causes him to be surprised. At the beginning of the separation, both of you still consider that the other person is his property, and any self-interest should be for him, so the natural expectation for him is that after the separation you will neglect yourself and be miserable, so let him know That you have become more beautiful after your separation from him and that he is a page torn from an old book.
lack of communication
Completely stay away from using social media to communicate your thoughts to him as if you are sending him messages such as sad phrases and phrases that express your condition with him, that makes him feel strong and comfortable.
Don't isolate
Do not cancel the meetings with your mutual friends, on the contrary, do more of these meetings and show them the most beautiful image of self-care and talk about your busy days of activities, but do not mention anything about it or talk about you or the story of your separation, and if that happened, you can be short in answer as if The topic does not concern you
do not worry
If you come across him somewhere, you have to be smart in knowing how to show feelings of indifference on your face, you have to let him feel that you have forgotten his appearance even or as if you have seen this person before, but you do not know where, you will notice on his face signs of provocation or his rapid withdrawal from the place.
Give him a lesson
The presence of the other woman in his life may make you think that whatever you do, it will not matter to him, that thinking is wrong, the traitor does not consider himself a traitor, but feels that he is a womanizer and has the right to multiple relationships and believes that his separation causes misery, so he will not forget the girl who gives him a lesson and You feel that he is a neglected person whose existence and non-existence is useless.