Menene sirrin farin ciki a rayuwar aure?

Rayuwar aure mai dadi, dole ne ku hadu bayan rashin jin daɗi, a kowace rayuwar haɗin gwiwa akwai sadaukarwa, wannan sadaukarwar babba ce ko ƙarami, rayuwar haɗin gwiwa tana buƙatar fahimtar mutum da yawa, kuma komai girman soyayya. Tsakaninku shine, mutunta ya kasance ginshiƙin jin daɗi a rayuwar aure, amma a koyaushe akwai ƙa'idodi kamar kowane kamfani, dole ne a yi la'akari da shi sosai kuma a fahimce shi sosai.Sa'an nan farin ciki da gamsuwa za su zama abokin tarayya

Mai ba da shawara kan harkokin iyali da ilimi Saeed Abdulghani ya bayyana cewa, sirrin jin dadi a rayuwar aure shi ne soyayya, fahimtar juna, kyakykyawar mu’amala da mutuntawa tsakanin ma’aurata, don haka ya kamata a yi la’akari da haka.

 

ta yaya za ki gane cewa mijinki yana yaudararki

• Girmamawa da yaba kokarin juna.
• Amincewa da juna tsakanin bangarorin biyu.
• Fahimtar juna tsakanin mata da miji, wanda ke rage yawan bambance-bambance da kuma kara kusanci.
• Girmamawa da godiya a tsakanin bangarorin biyu a yayin tattaunawa a cikin al'amuransu daban-daban, ba wai kalamai na batanci da sauransu ba.
•Kyakkyawan mu’amala tsakanin ma’aurata da fadar gaskiya lokaci zuwa lokaci, da sanin abin da zuciyar kowane bangare ke dauke da shi daga munanan ji don a yi musu magani da wuri, da kuma kara musu kyawu.
• Yin uzuri idan daya daga cikinsu ya yi kuskure a kan hakkin daya, wanda hakan alama ce ta girmamawa da godiya.
Amsa da sauri ga kowannensu; Wanda ke biyan bukatar wani.

Ta yaya za ka faranta wa mata rai

Mashawarcin ya ce akwai hanyoyi da dama da mace za ta iya faranta wa mijinta rai, da mu’amala da ita a yanayi daban-daban na rayuwa, ciki har da:

• Bada karfin gwiwa ga miji
Wannan ya kasance ta hanyar ba shi 'yanci don nishadantar da kansa, da aiwatar da abubuwan sha'awa da yake so, har sai ya dawo cike da sha'awa da soyayya.

• Yabo da girmamawa

Ya kamata mace ta girmama mijinta, kada ta raina shi, ko ta raina shi, kuma ta kasance mai godiya a kan duk abin da ya ba ta, kuma idan za ta yi magana da shi, dole ne ta kasance da hankali da hankali, koda kuwa ta yi kuskure kuma ta karkata ga ra'ayinsa.

• Bada soyayya
Ta hanyar bayyana shi, wanda ke kara wa namiji kwarin gwiwa da jin dadin kansa, don haka matarsa; Baya ga shirya gidan da yin aiki don samar da hanyoyin kwantar da hankali a cikinsa, da kuma adana kuɗinsa, daraja da daraja.

• Taimakon ɗabi'a, ƙarfafawa da ƙarfafawa

Cewa mace ta kasance mataimakiya da fakewa da ke goyon bayan miji a kowane lokaci; musamman masu wahala; Baya ga tallafin kuɗi, idan zai yiwu, da kuma la'akari da yanayin rayuwa daban-daban.

• Yin mu'amala da alheri
Ta hanyar godiya da wadatar rayuwar aure, da kyautata mata, da yin amfani da kalamai masu dadi da dadi a koda yaushe; Baya ga tunatar da shi abin da yake so ba akasin haka ba, lokacin saduwa da abokai ko dangi ko waninsa.

• Ki zama budurwarsa

Rayuwar aure tana cike da gundura da son kai, amma idan mace ta dauki mijinta a matsayin aboki na kud da kud; Wannan zai haifar da yanayi mai ban mamaki don yin magana, bayyana sirri da gwada sababbin ayyuka daban-daban.

• Hannun Sauƙaƙe
Kamar ba da kyauta da furanni, tunawa da muhimman lokatai da raba ayyukan yau da kullun, kamar siyan buƙatun gida, ko kallon sabbin shirye-shirye tare, kuma yana yiwuwa a tsara hutun da ma’auratan ke samun hutu da annashuwa.

A karshe kar ki yi tsammanin amsar da mijinki zai yi na sauya alakarki da shi zai yi sauri kamar walƙiya, ki zaɓe shi na ɗan lokaci sai ki ga bambanci, ki bayyana farin cikin rayuwar aure da farko, sannan ki yi ƙoƙarin nema. kyawawan abubuwan da abokin zaman ku ke da shi, ba maras kyau ba!!

 

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