Nā hana e hōʻike ana e hoʻopunipuni kēia kanaka iā ʻoe

Ke kanalua nei oe iaia, aka aole oe maopopo, he mau ninau kau, aka, aole hiki ia oe ke maopopo iki ia mea, ua loli nui oia, aka, heaha ka mea e hooiaio ai ia oe e hoopunipuni ana ia oe, ua hiki anei i ke kulana o ke kanaka ke e hoʻololi i kāna mālama ʻana me ka wahine āna i aloha ai, ʻo ka pane mai nā psychologists e lilo ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā kūlana o waho a me ke ola o ke kāne, e like me nā pilikia o ka hana a i ʻole nā ​​pilikia ʻohana, hiki ke hoʻololi i ka mālama ʻana o ke kāne i kāna wahine a i ʻole ka wahine pili i ka manaʻo. ʻAʻole ʻo kēlā me kēia hoʻololi ʻana he kumakaia, ʻaʻole hoʻi kēlā me kēia haʻalele ʻana, ʻo ia ka haʻalele ʻana. kokua ia oe i ka hooholo ana me ka oiaio, no ka mea, aohe uwahi ke ahi ole.

 Liʻiliʻi ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana ... ʻoi aku ka hoʻopiʻi

Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka i ka lohe ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi a makemake ʻole ʻoe ma mua o ka wā ma mua, e nalo ana i nā mea e like me "Nani ʻoe i kēia lā" a i ʻole makemake nui wau iā ʻoe! I ka manawa like, e ʻike ʻoe i ka piʻi ʻana o ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana o ke kanaka e pili ana i kāu mau hana a pau, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hoʻohewa i nā mea a pau āu e hana ai ma kahi ʻano ʻē a hoʻoikaika. Hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi mākou hiki i kēia mea ke hele mālie ke hele ʻoe i kekahi pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā hiki nō iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo inā he mea maʻamau kēia, a inā he hōʻike ia o kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Ke ho'ōki ke kanaka i ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe a ʻike wale i ka maikaʻi ʻole i loko o ʻolua, aia paha kekahi hewa i waena o ʻolua.

E lele ana mai kahi e kani ai kāna kelepona ponoʻī!

He mea make kēia maʻamau! I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi pilina aloha, makemake nā kāne e kaʻana like i nā ʻano āpau o ko lākou ola me nā wahine, aloha lākou. Hana pū lākou me kā lākou mau hoaaloha a i ʻole ka poʻe a lākou e kamaʻilio nui ai. Ke ho'ōki ke kāne i kēia hana, ʻo ia ka mea e hana nei kekahi mea!

Inā manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻopunipuni ana kāu kāne, e hoʻomaka e nānā i kāna ʻano me kāna kelepona pilikino. Makemake ʻo ia e haʻalele i ke kelepona iā ʻoe? Lele ʻo ia mai kona noho ke kani ke kelepona? Hoʻopau mau ʻo ia i nā kamaʻilio āpau, ʻoi aku ka nui me ka wahine āu i ʻike ai e kamaʻilio nui nei ʻo ia? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pane i ka nīnau hope ke ʻole ʻo ia i maʻa e kaʻana like me ʻoe i kāna mau mea huna a me nā nūhou hou loa me kāna mau hoaaloha.

 ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻōki iā ia iho mai ke kamaʻilio ʻana no ia mea.

He mea hoʻonāukiuki loa..ʻike mākou! He hoa hana a he kaikamahine paha kāu kāne e pili ana iā ia ma ka hana a no kekahi kumu ʻike ʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā ia e haʻi ana i kona inoa ma mua o ʻekolu manawa i ka lā. Ke noho ʻo ia i lalo me ʻoe e haʻi iā ʻoe i kāna mau moʻolelo a me kāna huakaʻi hele i kēlā me kēia lā, e holo ʻokoʻa ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia. Maopopo iā ʻoe ke kumu o kēia hana? Ke makemake ka poʻe i kekahi poʻe, hauʻoli lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou i nā manawa a pau me ka ʻike ʻole, a ma kēia hihia ʻo kou manawa ia e heluhelu ai ma waena o nā laina o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i kahi o kēia kaikamahine i kona ola.

emi ka noonoo

E ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole manaʻo nui kāu kāne i kāu mau mea pilikino a me nā kikoʻī āpau o kou ola ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kāna hana ma mua i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kou ola pū ʻana. ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e hana i kona manawa e noho pū me ʻoe a kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe e like me kāna ma mua.

 Makemake ʻoe i kahi kaikamahine ʻē aʻe

Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe a me kāu kāne i kahi pilina aloha ikaika, e hana koke kēia iā ʻoe ma kahi mua o kona ola, no laila he mea nui ʻoe i nā mea āpau o kona ola ma mua o kāna mau hoaaloha, no laila ke loli kēia kūlana ma hope o kekahi manawa, a manaʻo ʻoe ua lilo ʻoe i ka lua ma hope o kekahi kaikamahine, a ke hoʻāpono nei ʻO kona kūlana ma kēia mea ʻo ia kona hoa pili ma ka hana a i ʻole like, no laila pono ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i kēia mea, no ka mea he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka male male.

ʻO ka hewa a me ke ʻano o ka naʻau

Ua lohe paha ʻoe i ke mele kaulana ʻo Katy Perry "Hot and Cold"? ʻAe, ua like paha ʻolua i nā mele o kēia mele. No nā minuke, ʻike ʻoe iā ia he maikaʻi loa a aloha ʻoe me ʻoe (malia no ka mea ua hewa ʻo ia), a laila ma hope o kekahi mau minuke manaʻo ʻoe ua maloʻo kāna mālama ʻana iā ʻoe a nele i nā kūlana o ka ʻono a me ka politeness! He aha ka hopena! Ma ʻaneʻi wale nō ʻoe e manaʻo ai ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa nei ʻo ia iā ia iho ma kahi pilina ʻē aʻe a kū piʻoloke ma waena o ʻoukou.

Nui nā huakaʻi ʻoihana

Hele nui kāu kāne no ka ʻoihana a ʻaʻole manaʻo e lawe pū me ʻoe? Inā ʻae ka pane, pono ʻoe e nīnau i ke kumu ʻaʻole ia e lawe pū me ia. Aia kekahi mea kānalua a i ʻole kekahi o nā ʻano kāne e makemake e kaʻawale i kā lākou wahine i kēlā me kēia manawa i piha ke ola ma waena o lākou i ka hauʻoli a me ke aloha. ʻO ʻoe wale nō ke pane i kēia nīnau.

 Ka nānā nui ʻana i kona helehelena

Inā ʻo kāu kāne kekahi o nā kāne ʻaʻole manaʻo nui i ka hele ʻana i ka hale haʻuki a mālama i ko lākou nani i nā manawa a pau, a laila, lilo koke ʻo ia i mea hoihoi i ia mau mea, e nānā pono, ʻoiai he hōʻailona kēia o ka hoʻomaloka male. .

 nele i ka pili iā ʻoe

ʻO ka hope, inā ʻo kāu kāne ke ʻano e hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo iā ʻoe i nā manawa a pau, inā ma nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā ​​pūliki a me nā ʻōlelo kino, a laila ʻaʻole e hana hou i kēlā a ʻike ʻoe ua makemake ʻo ia e haʻalele iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole hoʻolimalima lōʻihi. me ʻoe e like me kāna ma mua, a laila pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono i kēia. Ke hana nei ʻo ia i kēia no ka huhū iā ʻoe no kahi kuhi hewa āu i hana ai, a i ʻole he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hoʻomaloka o kāu kāne?