E aʻo e pili ana i kēia ʻike maikaʻi e pili ana i ka psychology

1- Ke leka mai kekahi iā ʻoe, pono ʻoe e pane aku iā ia i ka manawa like, no ka mea, ʻaʻole pono kekahi mau memo a me nā kamaʻilio inā ʻaʻole i pane ʻia i ka manawa like, no ka mea, ʻaʻole mau nā manaʻo i kēlā manawa no ka manawa lōʻihi.

2- ʻO ke kaumaha i loaʻa i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole ia no ka pilikia i kū ai, akā no ka noʻonoʻo nui ʻana.

3- ʻO ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho: ʻAʻole ia ka manaʻoʻiʻo e makemake nā mea a pau iā ʻoe, akā "ʻo ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho" ʻo kou manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole e pili ka mahalo a me ka nele o nā kānaka iā ʻoe.

4- Wahi a kahi noiʻi noʻonoʻo ma ke Kulanui ʻo Cornell:
ʻO ka haʻahaʻa o ka hilinaʻi o ke kanaka iā ia iho, ʻoi aku ka nui o kona makemake e kūʻai i nā mea pono ʻole!

5- ʻO nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole āu e hūnā ai i loko ou, e lilo ia i ka hapa nui i maʻi.

6. ʻAʻole naʻaupō a lohi paha ka poʻe a pau e haʻalele i kāu mau hewa a i ʻole ka hana hewa.
Ke nānā aku nei kekahi mau mea hāʻawi a me nā manaʻo i nā paheʻe o ka mea a lākou i aloha ai i ʻole e nalowale.