ʻEono hōʻailona e hōʻike ana e hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i koʻikoʻi i ka pilina me ʻoe!!

He nui ka poʻe i nalowale i ke aloha a me nā pilina pupule me nā kāne pohihihi, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kona mau manaʻo iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike iā ia e pāʻani pū ana me ia, a ʻoiai ʻaʻole kamaʻilio maʻamau ke kāne e pili ana i kāna mau mea. noʻonoʻo, hiki i ka naʻauao a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka wahine ke hoʻoholo inā pili kēia kāne me ia, a i ʻole he leʻaleʻa me ia.

Nui nā mea e hōʻike ana i ka makemake ʻole o ke kāne i ka wahine ma ke ʻano he hoa pili i ka wā e hiki mai ana a hōʻike i kāna hoʻopunipuni

E nānā pū kākou.

1- Ina he oiaio ke aloha o ke kanaka ia oe, aole oia e kanalua no kekahi manawa e hookomo ia oe ma na kihi a pau o kona ola ponoi, a malia paha o ka ohana kekahi o na mea nui o keia mau anela, e noi aku ia ia e hele i ʻike i kona ʻohana, kona makuahine, kona kaikuahine, kona ʻohana, ʻoi aku hoʻi nā kaikamahine, inā hōʻole ʻo ia, he hōʻailona kēia. ʻAʻole ʻae ke kanaka e komo i ka pilina ma kekahi ʻano kūlana, a e hoʻāʻo e mālama i ka malu e like me ka hiki. He mea kūpono i ke kanaka ʻōpio ke noi aku i hoʻomaha ma ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka pilina ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kēia, i mea paha e maopopo ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kona mau manaʻo, a i ʻole e pale aku i ke kūʻē ʻana o nā mākua, akā ʻaʻole pono kēia kūlana e mau loa. , a pono ia e hana me ke ko'iko'i a pau ma ia mea, 'o ke kanaka opio i ko'iko'i 'ole e 'alo pinepine i ka hō'ike 'ana i kou pilina me ka po'e a puni ia, inā ma ka pae o ka hana, 'ohana a mau hoaaloha paha.

2- Ina e noi mai ke kanaka e pili ana ia oe i ke dala, a i ole ia, e uku i na bila no kou noho ana ma na cafe a me ka hele pu ana, alaila, e kaawale koke oe mai ona aku, ina he lohi ia, a i ole ia. he manawa kūpono a hoʻohana pono iā ʻoe ma ke kālā.

Pono ʻoe e makaʻala; Nui nā kāne akamai i noi ʻole i ke kālā mai nā kaikamahine, akā waiho i ka manaʻo i ke kaikamahine e hāʻawi i kāna lawelawe kālā, ma hope o kāna haʻi ʻana iā ia e pili ana i kahi pilikia hoʻokele waiwai a i ʻole kahi papahana āna e makemake ai e hoʻokō e kōkua iā ia e mare iā ia. etc, no laila e makaʻala, ʻae, kūpono ke kū ʻO ke kaikamahine ma hope o kāna hoa ola, akā ma ke ʻano he maopopo ʻole ʻo ia ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopunipuni iā ​​​​ia, ma ke ʻano he kāne ʻaʻole wau makemake e lilo i kaumaha kālā. ma luna o ka wahine, a au e hoole loa i ka manao, akā, i ka hihia o ka huli ana i mea e like me ka hope loa, ke kanaka pono e hoʻomaka ma luna o kona iho, a kau i ka mea i loko o ka mea i loko o ke 'ano o ka aie i palapala me na berita i kakauia. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka hui ʻana ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he hopena kūpono ia no ka mea maʻalahi ke hoʻopunipuni i nā moʻo kālā a me nā poho.

3- ʻO wai ka mea aloha i ka mea mālama i kāna mau pilikia, nā leʻaleʻa, nā moʻolelo kamaliʻi a me kāna mau hoʻomanaʻo, inā ʻike ʻoe mai ke kanaka e pili ana ʻoe i kahi manaʻo ʻole mau i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū ai me ia e pili ana i kekahi o kēia mau mea, pono ʻoe e makaʻala, ʻo ia. Hiki ke hoʻohana iā ʻoe no ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka leʻaleʻa wale nō, akā i ʻole e pili i nā kāne pono ʻole ʻAʻole pili kēia i nā kamaʻilio lōʻihi e hoʻolōʻihi ʻia no nā hola a ʻaʻole kaʻawale i ka ʻōlelo ʻino a nā wahine. luhi a maopopo ole ka manao.

Pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i waena o ke kanaka ʻaʻole makemake e kamaʻilio ma ke kelepona a me ke kanaka luuluu ke kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe.

4-E hoʻāʻo i kāu hoa i loko o kahi pilikia nui, a e nānā i kāna pane ʻana, inā wikiwiki a hui pū ʻo ia, he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia, akā inā ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i ka ʻōlelo aʻo wikiwiki me ka hele ʻole mai iā ʻoe e kū pū me ʻoe i kēlā manawa. o ka pilikia, a i ole e kokua ia oe me na mea a pau i loaa ia ia me ka maopopo a me ka maopopo, pono oe e makaala Mai ia ia, ka mea nui o kona loiloi ana e noonoo i ka nui o ka pilikia a hoohalike me ka manawa o ka launa ana me ia a me ka mea. ke hana nei ʻo ia i kēlā manawa a me kāna pane ʻana, a ʻo kāna hana maʻamau e like me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole ua hāʻawi ʻo ia i nā mea hou aku a me nā mea āpau iā ia!? Akā inā hōʻike ʻo ia ma mua o ka mea maʻamau, e ʻike ʻaʻole aloha kēia kanaka iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hilinaʻi ʻia ma ke ʻano he kāne.

5-E makaʻala i ka mea hoʻopiʻi e hoʻokuʻu ʻia, no ka mea aia kahi hui maikaʻi e hoʻokaʻawale a pale aku i nā wahine e hoʻokokoke aku i nā kaikamahine. E hoʻohālikelike i kou kūlana me ia me kona mau kaikunāne, inā ʻike ʻoe i kahi kūʻē aʻe, a laila ʻaʻole kēia hōʻailona he hōʻailona maikaʻi e hilinaʻi i kēia kanaka.

6- Inā aloha maoli ke kanaka ʻōpio iā ʻoe, e loaʻa ana iā ia ka manawa e hui ai a kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe ma ke kelepona, akā inā e hoʻopunipuni ana ʻo ia e hana mau a paʻa, pono ʻoe e helu hou, no ka mea, ʻo ka mea aloha iā ʻoe e loaʻa. lawa ka manawa e kamaʻilio ai inā no ka hapalua hola ma mua o ka moe ʻana, inā ma ke kelepona, kamaʻilio a i ʻole