ʻO nā hōʻailona o ke aloha i ke kāne ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo

He aha nā hōʻailona o ke aloha o ke kāne inā aloha ʻo ia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke hūnā i ka puʻuwai o ke kāne no ka manawa lōʻihi, ʻoiai ʻo kona hāmau pinepine.

• Inā kamaʻilio ke kanaka nā kikoʻī No keia wahine, a no ka mea i hookae ia ia a me kona mau makemake a pau, alaila, aloha maoli oia ia ia, no ka mea, makemake mau ka mea aloha e kamailio no kana mea i aloha ai.
• E ʻike ʻoe i ka maka o ke kāne aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo aia kahi ʻulaʻula a me ka nani e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ke aloha o ke kāne i kēia wahine.
• Hoʻolauna ke kāne i ka wahine āna i aloha ai i kona ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha pili, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻia ka pilina ma waena o lākou.
• Ina e hai aku ke kane i ka mea i loko ona a me kona mau manao a pau i keia wahine, he hoike ia o kona aloha ia ia
• E hoihoi nui ʻo ia i nā manawa a pau e pili ana i ka wahine āna i aloha ai a ʻaʻole e hoʻopau i ka manawa kūpono a hiki i ka wā e hiki ai iā ia ke hāʻawi iā ia i kahi makana e hōʻike ana i kona aloha a hoihoi.
• ʻO ka hoihoi o ke kāne, ʻoiai e ʻike ʻoe he kanaka aloha iā ʻoe a makemake nui e lohe mau i kou leo ​​a ʻike i nā kikoʻī āpau āu e hele ai i ka lā a ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe ke kaʻawale iā ia a i ʻole ʻoe e hopohopo. me kekahi mea

He aha nā hōʻailona e aloha ai ke kāne iā ʻoe?

• ʻO nā manaʻo o ke kāne aloha e kōkua i ka wahine e ʻoluʻolu, kūpaʻa a ʻoluʻolu ke kamaʻilio pū me ia a i ʻole ma kona ʻaoʻao.
• Inā aloha maoli ke kāne, hana ʻo ia e mālama i ke kaikamahine āna i aloha ai a ʻaʻole e hele ma waho o ka palena o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a i ʻole ka hana ʻana me ia.
• Ke hana mau nei ke kanaka aloha i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi kaikamahine, ʻoiai makemake mau ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pū me ia
• Makemake ʻo ia e launa pū me ia, me he mea lā e noi ana ʻo ia i kou lima i hiki ai iā ia ke mare iā ʻoe, a laila aloha maoli kēia kāne iā ʻoe a makemake e noho pū me ʻoe no ke ola.
• Hoʻohanohano mau ʻo ia i kona ʻano kāne, no laila e ʻike ʻoe ua hana ʻo ia i kāna ʻōlelo a ʻaʻohe kūʻē ma waena o kāna mau ʻōlelo a me kāna mau hana.
• He ʻoiaʻiʻo pololei ke kāne aloha i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai me ka wahine āna i aloha ai a pili pū me ia