Pehea ʻoe e hana ai me kāu kāne anu naʻau?

"He aloha ʻo ia i ko kāua hoʻopaʻa ʻana a hoʻololi ʻia ma hope o ka male ʻana," "ʻAʻole ʻo ia i aloha hou iaʻu e like me ma mua," "Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke loaʻa hou ka pumehana o kona aloha?" “

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine e hoʻopiʻi nei i kā lākou kāne e pili ana i ke anuanu o ko lākou ola manaʻo ma hope o ka male ʻana a me ka hoʻololi nui ma waena o ke aloha o ka hoʻopalau a me ka hana maʻamau o ke ola male.

A hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻimi i nā hopena a ʻike i nā kumu i alakaʻi ai i kēlā, no laila e hāʻawi mākou iā ʻoe ʻo wau ʻo Salwa i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo:

• Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo mua ʻaʻole he hoʻopunipuni ka wikiwiki a me ke aloha āna i hālāwai ai me ʻoe, akā ma hope o ka male ʻana, ʻaʻohe pono e hoʻoikaika nui e hoʻokokoke aku iā ʻoe, e like me ka manawa o ka hoʻopalau a me ka launa ʻana, no laila ua lilo ʻoe. he kāne male, e hōʻike ana ʻolua i ko ʻolua aloha i kekahi me ka hoʻoikaika ʻole a me ka ʻike ʻole.
• Ma hope o ka manawa male, hoʻomaka ke kāne e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāna wahine me kāna mau hiʻohiʻona a me kona nani, a me kona hoihoi iā ia, a lilo nā mea āpau iā ia, no laila pono ʻoe e hoʻololi mau i ke ʻano o ka nohona āu e noho nei. i kēlā me kēia lā, no ka mea, pono ʻoe e hōʻano hou i kou helehelena a me ke ʻano o kou hoihoi iā ia, no ka mea, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o hoʻokahi ʻano i loko o kekahi pilina ke kumu nui loa e hōʻoluʻolu a anu.

• ʻO ka noi mau no ke aloha a me ka nānā ʻana he mea hoʻonāukiuki, inā makemake ʻoe i kāu kāne e manaʻo hewa e hōʻike iā ʻoe i kona aloha, he mea kūʻē kēia ʻano, no ka mea e nāwaliwali ʻoe a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hālāwai i ka hopena i makemake ʻia ma hope o kāu noi no ka nānā ʻana, a ʻo kēia. e hoʻopōʻino i nā mea iā ʻoe, a manaʻo paha ʻoe he paʻakikī kēia a me ka mālama ʻole ʻana i kou mau manaʻo. ", "He anu ʻoe", "He manaʻo ʻole ʻoe".

• E hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi e like me: "Ua hauʻoli wau i kāu hana noʻu", "Haʻaheo wau i kāu hana", "Aloha wau i kēia ʻano o ʻoe"…. , ka mea e hoʻoikaika iā ia e hana hou a hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo iā ʻoe.
• Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ia e kū ana i kahi pilikia a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e kamaʻilio no ia mea, mai koi ʻoe iā ia e ʻōlelo, akā e manaʻo ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu ʻoe iā ia mai kona kūlana maikaʻi ʻole a kū ʻoe me ia, e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. palekana a hoʻokipa iā ʻoe i kona mau pilikia a pau.
• E hoʻolilo i ka manawa maikaʻi me kāu kāne i kēlā me kēia pule ma waho o ka home a mai kūkākūkā i nā pilikia o ka home, ka ʻohana a me ka hana, a he manawa nui kēia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo a pēlā e hoʻoulu ai i kona mau manaʻo a koi iā ia e hōʻike. me ka ninau ole ia oe.

• E mālama mau iā ʻoe iho, a koho i nā lole āna e makemake ai, i ka lauoho lauoho āna e makemake ai, a i ʻole ka nail polish…. ʻAʻole paha kona anu, e ʻike ʻo ia a ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kou hoihoi iā ʻoe iho nona ka mea e hoʻoulu ai i kona mau manaʻo a hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
• No ka paʻakikī o ka manaʻo a i ʻole ʻoe i hiki i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ka hoʻololi ʻana iā ia a ʻaʻohe hopena o kona anuanu, e ʻike ʻoe i ka hopena o kāu hoʻāʻo ʻana, e like me kou hoʻoulu ʻana i kona mau manaʻo ma mua, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohou. akā, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ka mea hoʻoikaika.