Pehea ʻoe e hana ai me ke kanaka naʻaupō?

Pehea ʻoe e hana ai me ke kanaka naʻaupō?

E hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāu mau manaʻolana

Pono ʻoe e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kou mau manaʻolana no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ʻole e kahaha i ka wā e hālāwai ai ʻoe me ke kanaka naʻaupō i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hui a puni ʻoe i nā ʻano kanaka āpau a ʻo ia hoʻi he paʻakikī mau ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea manaʻo, manaʻo a hana like. ʻO ʻoe, loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou pae ponoʻī o ka naʻauao a me kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa no laila pono ʻoe e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāu mau kūlana e amo ʻO ke kanaka naʻaupō ke hālāwai ʻoe me ia a hoʻāʻo e hoʻomau me ia.

E ho'āʻo e ʻike i ka honua mai ko lākou manaʻo

No ka hiki iā mākou ke hana me nā poʻe naʻaupō, pono mākou e ʻoluʻolu iā lākou a hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ka honua a me ko lākou puni mai ko lākou ʻike, a laila hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo hou iā lākou, maopopo i ko lākou manaʻo, manaʻo a hana, a pēlā e hiki ai. e ae aku i ko lakou like ole.

E hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou ikaika

Loaʻa paha i ka poʻe naʻaupō nā ikaika a me nā talena ma ke kula ʻoiai he naʻaupō lākou i ke ola maʻamau, hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke lilo i mea maikaʻi i kekahi mea ʻoiai ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi hana e huki ai iā lākou me ke kuko, a i ka manawa e maopopo ai mākou hiki iā mākou ke ʻimi i kahi hana. ikaika a i ʻole kekahi mea maikaʻi I ke kanaka lapuwale i mua o mākou.

E mahalo me ka poe naaupo no ke kumu maikai ole

I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke aloha aku i ke kanaka naʻaupō a ʻike ʻole i kahi mea maikaʻi a ikaika paha i loko ona, a i kēia mau hihia, pono ʻoe e mahalo iā ia no ke kumu ʻole ma mua o ka mālama ʻana i ka maluhia a me ka noho kīwila ma ke ʻano he kanaka, ʻoiai. ke manaʻo mākou ua ʻoi aku ka naʻauao ma mua o ka mea ʻē aʻe i mua o mākou, i kekahi manawa pono mākou e ʻakaʻaka iki e hoʻopau i ko mākou mau manaʻo ʻino iā ia.4

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Inā ʻike ʻoe i kahi kanaka naʻaupō a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa iki, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia me mākou, aia mākou i ka hopena o nā mea like ʻole me nā manaʻo like ʻole, ka ʻike a me nā pahuhopu a ʻike mākou i nā poʻe hiki ʻole iā mākou ke kamaʻilio me ʻoiai. ʻO kā mākou hoʻoikaika ʻana e hana pēlā, a laila ʻo kāu mea e hana ai ʻo ka haʻalele ʻana i kēia poʻe a nānā ʻole iā lākou inā pono a he hopena lanakila-lanakila paha ia.

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