Pehea e lanakila ai i ke kaumaha a me ka huhū ma hope o ka nalowale ʻana i kahi hana?

ʻO ka nalo ʻana i kahi hana ʻaʻole ia he mea e ʻike ʻole ʻia.aka, e lohi , ʻAʻole ia he mea ʻino loa, e like me ka nūpepa Mirror, kekahi o nā loea noʻonoʻo koʻikoʻi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nalo ʻana i kahi hana, no ke ola maikaʻi.

Ma kahi i hoʻouna ʻia ai kahi wahine i nalowale i kāna hana i ka nūpepa Pelekane, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana ma ka kikokikona o ka leka: "He wahine au he 40 makahiki, a ua hōʻeha loa au, ʻoiai ua nalowale kaʻu hana i ʻOkakopa. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻohi i ka ʻoliʻoli no ka Kalikimaka, ʻoiai ua hana koʻu hoa a me koʻu ʻohana i ka mea maikaʻi loa e hōʻoluʻolu iaʻu. Ma ke kālā, maikaʻi nā mea; No ka mea, he hana ko ka'u hoa, a hiki iaia ke uku i ko makou mau koina, a ua loaa ia'u kekahi dala, i mea e pomaikai ai au i ko'u ola ana. Akā ʻo ka pilikia, makemake nui au i kaʻu hana, a ua kokoke au ma laila no 10 mau makahiki. Ua kūkulu au i koʻu pōʻai kaiaulu a puni ka poʻe aʻu i hana pū ai, a i kēia manawa ua nalowale au. Me he mea lā e hoʻomaka ana au ma 23, a ʻaʻohe oʻu hilinaʻi e hana pēlā. Makaʻu loa wau i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana, no laila ua hoʻāʻo wale au e ʻimi i kahi kuleana ʻē aʻe ma kahi ʻē. Huhū Ua hana au i ka manawa piha mai koʻu makahiki he XNUMX, a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. E uē mau ana au i ka waimaka no ke kumu ʻole, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopau i ka hauʻoli. Ua huhū au i koʻu haʻalele ʻana i ka hana, a ua noho kekahi. He mea paʻakikī ia iaʻu, no ka mea, manaʻo wau e like me ka manaʻo maikaʻi, akā ua haki maoli iaʻu, he aha ka hewa?"

ʻO ke kiʻi maikaʻi loa o ke ʻano o ka makua kāne e manaʻo ai nā mākua i kahi hemahema

Ke kali nei kahi manawa kūpono iā ʻoe!!!!!!

ʻO Colin, he loea i ka ʻepekema, pane mai:
"ʻO ka mea mua, makemake wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe he mea maʻamau kou mau manaʻo, he mea nui ka nalowale ʻana i kahi mea āu i loaʻa ai no kahi kokoke i 10 mau makahiki, ʻo ia ka mea nui o kou ola. Aia ʻoe ma ka ʻāina kamaʻāina ʻole, he mea weliweli mau.
Eia naʻe, ʻo ka lilo ʻana o kāu hana he manawa kūpono loa ia e hana ai i kahi mea hou, a hoʻomaikaʻi i kou ola ma nā ʻano like ʻole. I kēia mau lā, ʻo ka piha ʻana i ka 17, ʻo ia hoʻi he ʻōpiopio ʻoe, me XNUMX mau makahiki o ka ʻike nui hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i nā mea hana ʻē aʻe.
He mea maikaʻi ke hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa, ʻaʻole wale no ke kūkulu hou ʻana iā ʻoe iho, akā e hauʻoli wale nō e hana i kāu makemake. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e loaʻa hou i kēlā manawa ke hoʻi ʻoe i ka hana, a ʻaʻole wau makemake e mihi ʻoe i ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka manawa i ka wā i hala.