Pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai me ka mea āu i aloha ai ma o ka ikehu me ka ʻike ʻole?

Pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai me ka mea āu i aloha ai ma o ka ikehu me ka ʻike ʻole?

Aia kekahi lula e ʻōlelo ana ʻo ka ikehu kahi e kau ai ka manaʻo. Ua ʻōlelo ka lula e hoʻopuka ʻoe i ka ikehu kuhikuhi ma kahi o kou nānā ʻana. ʻO ʻoe a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana iā ʻoe, neʻe kona ikaika iā ʻoe, no laila ke aʻo aku nei mākou iā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e hana i kāu makemake a e haʻalele i ka mea āu e makemake ʻole ai.

A ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kahi kanaka i hana ʻia ma waena o ʻoe a me ia, e like me ke ala (ala māmā), ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia ke kaula ikehu.
Ma nā wahi a pau āu e manaʻo ai, ua hana ʻia kēia ʻāpana māmā a i ʻole ala.

A ʻo ka mea e hiki mai ana, hoʻomaka ka neʻe ʻana o ka ikehu ma kēia ala. ʻEhā mau mea hiki ke hana penei:

1 - Inā maikaʻi kou ikaika a maikaʻi ka ikehu āu e nānā ai, e ulu ana kēia ikehu ma waena o ʻoe a me kāu mea e nānā ai.

2 - Inā maikaʻi kou ikaika a maikaʻi ʻole ka ikehu āu e nānā ai, e like me ka nānā ʻana a i ʻole ka lohe ʻana i nā nūhou maikaʻi ʻole, ka lohe ʻana i kahi mele kaumaha, a i ʻole ka hui ʻana i nā poʻe e hoʻopiʻi nui nei, e hoʻololi ʻoe i kou ikaika maikaʻi iā lākou, e hoʻoili ʻia ka ikehu ʻino iā ʻoe.

3 - Inā maikaʻi kou ikehu a ʻo ka ikehu āu e nānā ai, inā he kanaka, he manaʻo, he manaʻo, a he mea ʻē aʻe paha, he maikaʻi, a laila e hoʻololi kou ikehu maikaʻi iā ia a hoʻoili i kona ikehu maikaʻi iā ʻoe.

4 - Inā maikaʻi ʻole kou ikehu a maikaʻi ʻole ka ikehu ʻē aʻe, e hoʻonui ʻia ka ikehu ʻino ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.

5- Ke kau nei ʻoe i ka ikehu maikaʻi a aia ʻoe i ka ikehu maikaʻi, hiki i kēia ke hoʻopuka i ka ikehu enchanting mana, e like me ka hana ʻana i ka ikehu o ke aloha e nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua, a me ka leʻaleʻa i nā hoaaloha maikaʻi, no laila e hoʻohana i kēlā manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i kāu mau pahuhopu. i kēia kanaka a nui loa ka manawa e hiki mai ai.