Pehea e lilo ai i kamaʻilio naʻauao a kūleʻa?

Pehea e lilo ai i kamaʻilio naʻauao a kūleʻa?

1- I ka hoʻomaka ʻana, he mea pono loa e ʻimi i kahi kikoʻī ma waena o ʻoe a me kekahi e hoʻomaka ai i kāu kamaʻilio me ia, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā i nā kumuhana e alakaʻi i nā kumuhana ʻē aʻe, i nalowale ʻoe i ka poʻe e hoʻolohe ana iā ʻoe. akā, e ho'āʻo mau e hana i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka manaʻo, a i kēlā me kēia manawa āu i ʻae ai i kahi ʻaelike me kāu interlocutor ma kahi hihia, a neʻe koke ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi hihia hou e pili ana i kēia ʻaelike mua.

2- E makaʻala i ka huhū, no ka mea, hoʻopau ia i ka mea āu i kūkulu ai no nā hola lōʻihi i ka manawa hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kamaʻilio huhū ke alakaʻi i kahi hopena maikaʻi a ʻaʻole ia e alakaʻi i kahi hopena. Akā, ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki paha i kāu kamaʻilio ke huhū a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mea ma mua o lākou, no laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui a mālie ʻoiai inā ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. ʻaʻole ʻōlelo i kāu makemake.

3- Mai hoʻomāʻewaʻewa i kou manaʻo a pili pū paha i kou manaʻo, no ka mea, he pololei a he hewa paha kekahi manaʻo, a e manaʻo kekahi ʻaoʻao he mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi ʻoe a hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kona manaʻo inā pololei.

4- ʻO ka mea a mākou i kamaʻilio ai ma ka ʻanuʻu mua e alakaʻi iā mākou i kēia ʻanuʻu. ʻO kekahi o nā ʻano nui o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana, ʻo ia ka ʻae ʻana i ka hewa. ʻo ia ke hoʻomau nei ʻoe i kou manaʻo ʻoiai he hewa ia, ke ʻike ʻoe ua hewa ʻoe, a laila e kala aku ʻoe i ka poʻe i mua ou, mahalo ʻo ia i kou kūlana a hoʻopau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe me ka puʻuwai ākea a me ka hoʻolohe a pau , no ka mea, e ʻike ʻo ia he kanaka wehe a maʻalahi ka mea kamaʻilio.

5- Aia mau ke kukakuka hua ole, pomaikai ole, a pau ka manawa, O na ouli o keia hoopaapaa, oia ka hookiekie ana i ka leo, aole no ka ikaika o ka hoopaapaa e hoonui i ka hookiekie ana i ka leo ma ke kukakuka ana. ʻO ka hana hou ʻana i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa like ma ke ʻano naʻaupō kekahi o nā ʻano o ke kūkākūkā pono ʻole, me ka hōʻole ʻana i nā axioms a me nā postulates i ʻae ʻia e ka poʻe i ke ola.

6- Kaulike ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka hoʻolohe ʻana, ʻoiai ʻoe e kamaʻilio a hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo, pono ʻoe e waiho i kahi lumi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio. ʻaʻole e hoʻopau i ka mea haʻiʻōlelo, a kūʻē paha iā ia i kāna haʻiʻōlelo, a he mea nui kēia inā ʻoe ʻo Dialogue ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻōlelo.

7- ʻO ka hope loa, he mea nui loa kēia wahi no ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻoiai e mau ana ka kānalua ma waena o nā mea kamaʻilio, ʻoiai e mau ana ka kānalua, a no laila ʻaʻole e pōmaikaʻi ke kamaʻilio ʻana a i ʻole ke kūkākūkā ʻana. Pono ʻoe e pale i ka manaʻo kuhi, a e hoʻomaopopo mau i ka manaʻo maoli o ka ʻōlelo a ʻaʻole e wehewehe i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe.

Pehea ʻoe e aʻo ai i kāu keiki i ke akamai o ka hana?