He aha ka manawa kūpono e hāʻawi i ka hilinaʻi i ka hoa??
E ho'ōki i ka ʻeha a me ka hōʻeha ʻia e nā kāne hilinaʻi ʻole ʻoiai ʻo kekahi o kā mākou hopohopo nui e hāʻawi i ko mākou aloha i ka mea nāna i kumakaia i ko mākou hilinaʻi No laila pehea ʻoe e hoʻōki ai i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i kāu mea aloha?
Eia kekahi mau ʻanuʻu e pono ai:
Mai hāʻawi koke i kou hilinaʻi.
ʻO ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha e makapō paha ko mākou mau maka i ka wā mua mai nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole o ke kanaka no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua, akā ma hope o kekahi manawa e hoʻomaka ana nā mea e ʻike maopopo ʻia, a laila hoʻomaka nā manaʻo e lawe i kahi ala kūpono, no laila e hoʻomanawanui i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kou hilinaʻi ʻoiai e hoʻomaka ana nā ʻano e ʻike maopopo ʻia.
Mai hilinaʻi i ke kanaka ma mua o kona mahalo iā ʻoe.
Hele pū ka hilinaʻi a me ka mahalo. E nīnau mai kāu keikikāne iā ʻoe, 'No ke aha ʻoe i hilinaʻi ʻole ai iaʻu? ʻAʻole ʻoe aloha iaʻu e like me koʻu aloha iā ʻoe? ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e aloha iaʻu inā ʻaʻole ʻoe hilinaʻi iaʻu.
ʻO ka mua, e makaʻala, e pāʻani paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Ke hoʻohana nei ʻo ia i kou manaʻo e hoʻoikaika i kou manaʻo i ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu hilinaʻi.
E hoʻomaopopo ʻoe he ʻelua mau mea like ʻole ke aloha a me ka hilinaʻi ʻana i ke kanaka. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻoi aku ka nui o kona mahalo iā ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka nui o kou hilinaʻi iā ia. ʻO ka liʻiliʻi o ka mahalo iā ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hilinaʻi pono iā ia.
ʻO ka hope he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
Ke hilinaʻi ʻoe, e ʻae i nā pilikia.
ʻO nā pilikia e kū mai ana ma hope o ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha he ala pilikia. No ka nui o kou akahele, aia mau ka manawa e hiki mai ai na mea kamahao a aole ia he mea ino. ʻO nā hāʻule, huli a i kekahi manawa ke kaumaha akā e ʻike ʻoe i ke ala i ka lanakila. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pakele i ka pōʻino ke wehe ʻoe i ka puka o ke aloha.
Nā kumuhana ʻē aʻe:
Pehea ʻoe e hoʻopau ai i ka manawa ma hope o ka haʻihaʻi ʻana?
E aʻo i ke ʻano o ka hālāwai mua me ka mea aloha