Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe aia ʻoe i loko o kahi hoʻohemo psychological me kou ʻohana?

E lanakila kākou i ka hemo ʻana noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka ʻohana a e hoʻopakele iā mākou iho mai nā pōʻino o ka kaʻawale hope loa a hoʻi i kahi ʻohana aloha, hui pū a komo pū kekahi.
Pehea e kūleʻa ai ke kamaʻilio ʻohana i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia lehulehu i loko o ka hale???
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻohana he ala wale nō ia e kamaʻilio maikaʻi ai ka ʻohana, a he mea nui loa ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ma waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana. ʻo ia ke kumu o ka pilina pili ʻohana a kōkua i nā keiki e ulu aʻe i loko o kahi hānai olakino maikaʻi e hana ai i ka ʻuhane o ka launa pū ʻana, kahi e hoʻonui ai i ka hilinaʻi i nā lālā o ka ʻohana, e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻokō i ko lākou mau makemake a me ko lākou mau manaʻolana.

ʻO kekahi o nā kumu e alakaʻi ai i ka nele o ke kamaʻilio ʻohana:

• Pili ka makua kāne a me ka makuahine i kā lāua hana a me nā hana ma waho o nā keiki a me ka home.
• ʻO ka pauʻole o ka hilinaʻi i ka hiki a me ka hiki ke kamaʻilio a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻana i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kūkākūkā e hana i nā hopena i makemakeʻia.
• Ke komo ʻana i nā kaha ukali i noho i ka manawa a ka ʻohana e kamaʻilio ai.
• Ka ʻike ʻole i nā ʻano kamaʻilio kūpono.
• ʻO ka dictatorship o kekahi mau mākua, ka mea e hōʻole ai e kamaʻilio me kā lākou mau keiki, me ka manaʻo ua ʻoi aku ko lākou ʻike ma mua o nā keiki, no laila ʻaʻohe o lākou kuleana e kūkākūkā i kā lākou mau mea.
• ʻOi aku ka waiwai waiwai
• ʻO ka nui o ka hānau keiki ʻole ʻana me ka loaʻa kālā a me ka ʻohana a me ke kūlana paʻakikī o ka noho ʻana kekahi o nā kumu i lilo ai ke kamaʻilio ʻohana i kahi ʻāpana haiki a kokoke ʻole.
• ʻOkoʻa ka ʻikepili makahiki mai kekahi hanauna a i kekahi hanauna, ʻoiai ʻokoʻa loa ka hanauna o nā makua kāne mai nā keiki.
• ʻO ka noho ʻana o nā kaikamahine i loko o nā hale a hāʻawi iā lākou i nā hana nui i nā hana ʻohana.
• ʻO ka polygamy a me ka nele o ka hoʻopono ma waena o lākou, ka mea i haʻalele i kekahi ʻohana ma ka lilo o kekahi, alakaʻi i ka nele o ke kamaʻilio.