Koj nrog koj tus menyuam tham li cas?

Peb coob leej xav kom nws ua tiav hauv kev ntseeg nws cov menyuam ntawm qhov nws xav tau, lossis ua qhov kev sib tham ua tiav thiab muaj txiaj ntsig zoo nrog lawv. Yog li ntawd, muaj cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb hauv kev ua tiav qhov yuav tsum tau ua:

Tsis txhob qw lossis tsa koj lub suab tshaj tus qauv, tsuas yog siv lub suab nrov los txwv tus cwj pwm phem.

Sim ua kom ntau li ntau tau nrog koj tus menyuam tham kom zoo, tsis tas yuav qhia nws yam nws yuav tsum tsis txhob ua, qhia nws tias nws yuav tsum ua li cas, tsis txhob hais tias "tsis yog" rau nws, muab koj txhais tes qias neeg rau ntawm lub rooj zaum, hais rau nws. , "Cia li ntxuav koj txhais tes tam sim no kom lawv qias neeg thiab tom qab ntawd peb tuaj yeem zaum." saum lub rooj zaum nyeem koj zaj dab neeg).

Tsis txhob sau koj cov ntawv rau koj tus menyuam tam sim ntawd, vim nws cov tshuaj tiv thaiv yuav tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis tsis kam.

Tsis txhob siv cov lus thuam lossis hu rau tus menyuam yam tsis zoo, qhia nws kom meej tias nws tus cwj pwm phem yog qhov koj tsis nyiam thiab tsis yog nws.

Yog tias koj tus menyuam qw rau koj, tsis txhob tsa koj lub suab rau nws, nws tsis pab, tsuas yog hais kom nws tsis txhob nrog koj tham li ntawd.

Tsis txhob muab tus menyuam piv rau lwm tus, nws tsis pab kiag li.

Tsis txhob cuam tshuam tus me nyuam rau ib yam dab tsi yog tias nws mus dhau qhov kev npau taws.

Nthuav koj qhov kev sib tham nrog tus menyuam, cia nws nyeem koj lub cev lus thiab ua siab zoo thiab zoo siab rau koj nrog nws tham.

Tau qhov twg los: The Perfect Nanny Book