1. Kaua e neke atu i te rua nga wa e waea atu ana ki tetahi, ki te kore ia e whakahoki mai i to waea, whakaarohia he mahi nui tana.

2. Whakahokia te moni i namahia e ia i mua i te maharatanga, i te tono ranei a te tangata nana i nama. E whakaatu ana tenei i to pono me to ahua pai. He pera ano mo era atu kaupapa.

3. Kaua rawa e tono i te kai tino utu nui i runga i te tahua ina tono tangata koe ki te kai.

4. Kaua e patai nga patai whakama penei "He aha koe kaore ano kia marena?" "Kaore au tamariki" ranei "He aha koe kaore i hoko whare?" He aha ranei e kore ai e hoko waka? Ehara tenei i to raru.

5. Tuwhera tonu te kuaha ki te tangata kei muri i a koe. Kare he aha mena he tane, he kotiro ranei, he nui, he iti ranei. E kore koe e whakaiti i a koe ma te manaaki i tetahi tangata i mua i te iwi.

6. Mena kei te eke koe i te taxi me tetahi hoa ka utu ia i te utu, me utu koe i muri mai

7. Whakahonoretia nga whakaaro rereke. Kia mahara ko te ahua o te 6 ki a koe ka whakaatu te 9 ki tetahi e anga ana ki a koe. I tua atu, ka taea e te whakaaro tuarua te mahi ki a koe i etahi wa.

8. Kaua e pokanoa te tangata e korero ana. Tukua kia korero mai ta ratou e pai ai. Na, whakarongo ki a ratou katoa ka whiriwhiri i taau e pai ai ka paopao ki taau e pai ai.

9. Mēnā kei te kōrero koe ki tētahi, ā, te āhua nei kāre ia i te pai ki te kōrero, mutu, kaua e mahi anō.

10. Korero "whakawhetai" ina awhina tetahi ki a koe.

11. A haapopou i te taata i mua i te huiraatira e a faahapa ia ratou i mua i te taata.

12. Kaore rawa he take pai hei korero mo te taumaha o tetahi. Korero noa ki a ia he ahua pai ia. Mena ka whakaaro ratou ki to whakaaro, ma ratou ano e mahi.

13. Ina whakaatu tetahi ki a koe i tetahi pikitia i runga i tana waea, kaua e swipe maui, matau ranei. Kare koe e mohio he aha te mea ka whai ake.

14. Ki te korero tetahi hoa mahi ki a koe kei a ia te waahi o te taote, kaua e patai mo te aha, me kii noa "E tumanako ana ahau kei te ora koe." Kaua e waiho i roto i te noho pai ki te korero ki a koe mo o raatau mate. Mena kei te pirangi ratou ki te korero ki a koe, ka mahia e ratou me te kore koe e patai.

15. Kia rite te whakaute ki a koe ki to rangatira tata. Kare he tangata e miharo ki to kore whakaute mo te tangata kei raro iho i a koe, engari ka kite te tangata mena ka whakaute koe ki a ia.

16. Mena kei te korero tika tetahi ki a koe, kaore e tika te titiro ki to waea.

17. Me aro noa ki nga mea kei a koe mena he mea kei a koe.

18. Tangohia o mohiti ki te korero koe ki tetahi i te huarahi. He tohu whakaute. He rite tonu te hiranga o te kanohi ki o kupu.

19. Kaua rawa e korerotia to taonga ki te hunga rawakore. Waihoki, kaua e korero mo o tamariki i mua i te hunga kore tamariki.

20. Ko te maioha te huarahi ngawari ki te whiwhi i te aroha me te whakaute o te tangata.