Mena he mohio te tane, ka koa te marena

E mea varavara te faarooraa i te mau a‘oraa e faataehia i te tane no te hoê oraraa faaipoipo maitai, e tei matauhia ia tatou ia faaroo e mai te peu e e ere te faaipoiporaa, na te vahine ana‘e ïa i rave, e mai te peu e e manuïa, no roto ïa i te mau peu maitai o te taata. ko te tane, engari ko tenei tikanga tapu kei runga i nga pou e rua, ko te tane raua ko te wahine ko te kotahitanga, ko tona whakangaromanga, ko tana hanga ano ma nga taha e rua, a ko te turanga kaha kei te tane, ki te mea he tangata mohio, ka mahia e ia te te faaipoiporaa e oaoa e e here ai ta ’na vahine ia ’na, no reira, eaha te mau a‘oraa i te tane?

kaua e tawai ki a ia

Kaua e tawai ki a ia, kaua hoki e whakamaumahara kino ki tona whanau, no te mea ka wareware ia kia mau tonu te ora, engari e kore e wareware i a ia te tawai.

Kaua e kaha to tikanga ki runga 

Kaua e utaina to tikanga ki runga i a ia na te mea he ahorangi koe mo te ohaoha, matū ranei, kaore ia e mohio ki aua mea, ehara i te mea he kuare ia, he kore matauranga ranei. Kua kuraina a Fahmy ki tetahi atu mara kaore pea koe e aro atu.

Whakataurite me to whanau

Me whakataurite e koe to aroha ki a ia me to aroha ki to whanau, kaua hoki e he tetahi wahi o ratou, no te mea kare ia e kino ki a ratou, engari e kino ana koe ki to wehewehenga mai i a ratou he tangata ke ki a ratou, wareware he mea rerekee. Whakaarohia he taapiri hou ki to whanau.

Hoatu ki a ia te maia

Homai te maia ki to wahine, kaua e waiho hei tangata whai i to tupuni, hei pononga mahi i au whakahau, engari me whakatenatena ia kia whai mana ake, kia whai whakaaro, me tana whakatau. Korero ki a ia i roto i o mahi, a ki te kore koe e pai ki tana whakaaro, paopao ma te pai.

whakamoemiti 

A haapopou i ta oe vahine ia rave ana‘e oe i te hoê ohipa haapopou e eiaha e mana‘o e te ohipa ta oe e rave i roto i to oe utuafare, e ohipa natura ïa e ore e au ia haamauruuruhia, e a faaea i te faahapa e te faaino e eiaha e faaau ia ’na ia vetahi ê.

te tautoko 

Mena ka mate to wahine, kaua e waiho ko ia anake, he mea nui ake to tautoko kare-roto ki a ia i te waea atu ki te taote.

Hei tautoko ia ia inaianei 

Ka whakamohio atu ahau ki to wahine ka taea e koe te tiaki i a ia i te taha ohaoha, kaua hoki e kopikopiko i a ia ahakoa pehea te pai, ahakoa pehea tona pai Ko koe te tino whakakapi i tona papa.

Ko to wahine ehara i a koe

Ahakoa te hiranga o te hototahitanga hinengaro i waenganui i a korua ko to wahine, me mihi koe ki nga ahuatanga rerekee he mea motuhake ki a koe.

te whakahou aroha 

Ka taea e to harikoa marena te haere tonu ma te whakahou i to aroha mo to wahine.

kaua e whakaiti 

Eiaha e riro mai te mau tane o te ore e hi‘o i ta ta ratou mau vahine no te mau maitai e te mau maitai e eiaha e hi‘o ia ratou maoti râ te mata o te tau‘a ore e te faaino.

Te ti'araa tane mau o te haapa'o maitai i roto i te mau ohipa atoa, te tuuraa i te mau mea i roto i te hi'oraa, e te arata'iraa i te pahi no te ora i ni'ai te e'a no te paruru e te oaoa.

Ētahi atu kaupapa: 

Me pehea koe me te tangata kaitoi?

Me pehea te whakahoki mai i te ngakau o to hoa aroha i muri i to whara i a ia?