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Ko te nuinga o tatou ka uru ki roto i te korerorero, i te korerorero ka puta anake ma te hamama, a ki te ora ia mai i tera, ka puta mai i roto i te iti o te taumahatanga.Ko te whainga o te korerorero ko te mahi tahi me te eke ki tetahi hua i whakaaetia e pa ana ki tetahi raruraru kua tautohetia, ko te mea nui i roto i te korerorero ko te kaha ki te whakarongo atu i tera... o te kaha ki te korero.
Anei etahi tohutohu hei karo i te taka ki roto i nga hapa korero e pa ana ki a tatou:
- Ko tetahi o nga hapa nui i te wa o te korerorero ko te kati o tetahi o nga roopu i tana whakarongo mo tera tangata, ka noho ko ia anake ki te korero: Ko te tuatahi me whakapono ki te whakaaro ko te korerorero he tikanga tuku, tango me te whakawhiti whakaaro. , karekau hoki e tika kia noho ko matou anake ki te whakapuaki i o matou whakaaro.
- Whakaatuhia to hiahia ki nga kupu a tera atu: kaua e puta mai me te mea e tatari ana koe kia mutu tana mahi i roto i te korerorero, me te mea ranei kei te ruarua koe i roto i to hinengaro i nga kupu ka korerotia e koe, ka tukuna atu e koe ki tera taha. me te kore e rongo i nga taumahatanga ka raru pea te korerorero.
- Mena ka tupono koe ki tetahi kupu kare koe i marama ki te tikanga, kare he he ki te patai atu ki a ia, kia kore ai e whakamaoritia, kia kore e pohehe.
- Mena he maha nga tangata kei roto i tenei korerorero, kaore e whakaaetia kia korero ki te tangata kotahi anake, ki te whakakore ranei i te tangata kotahi, me whakauru e koe nga tangata katoa ki taau e korero ana.
- Kia kaua e rawekehia, kia rerekee ma te whakamahi i nga reo: ka ngoikore tenei i te kounga o te kaupapa e korerohia ana e koe, ina koa kare te tangata e mohio ki te reo e whakamahia ana e koe.
- Waiho kia nui te wa mo tera atu ki te mohio me te whakautu.
- I te wa e whakaatu ana tatou i tetahi whakaaro no tatou, he maha nga wa ka harikoa tatou me te kore e mohio, ka tere haere a tatou kupu, kaore tenei i te pai i roto i nga tikanga o te korerorero, ka puta te hoha ki te hunga e noho tata ana ki a tatou me te kore korero i a tatou. whakaaro tika, no reira me aro tatou ki te wa i waenganui i a tatou kupu.
- Mena ka tukuna mai he patai ki a maatau, me aro tonu tatou kia kaua e whakautu tere me te tango i te 3-5 hēkona ka whakahoki hei whakaatu i to hiahia ki te whakarongo ki te patai ka tukuna atu ki a koe me te mohio pai.
- Kaua e whai kupu whakamutunga, kia tapirihia ranei: hei tauira, ki te korero tetahi tangata ki a tatou, me whakarongo tatou ki a ia me te whakanui i ona kaha, kaua e whakanui i ta tatou e mahi nei, penei i te korero me taku mahi pera me ahau ranei. mohio tenei...
- Kaua e wareware ko te kaikorero pai he tangata whakarongo pai