Me pehea e karo ai i te riri o te tangata hae?

1- Me wehe kee koe i te tuatahi he momo puhaehae, he ahua mana me te mana rangatira.

2- Kaua e whakanuia te korero mo te tangata, na te mea tenei e hae ai ia, e riri ai.

3- A rave ia ’na i pihai iho ia oe ia papu ia ’na e ia papu ia ’na, ia ani oe ia ’na ia faaite i ta oe mau haereraa e to oe mau hoa, e ite oia i te tamahanahanaraa e te tamahanahanaraa.

4- Whakautua ana patai katoa, ahakoa he aha te hoha ki a koe, kaua hoki e whakapouri, no te mea ka puta ake ona ngakau ruarua me te hae.

5- Me aro atu ki tana mahi whakapataritari i runga i te ata noho, ka mutu ma te tohu tohu kia mawehe atu i te wero, kaua hoki ia e whakaaro kua hoha koe.

6- Whakanuia ano to puhaehae ki a ia, na tenei ka marie te porangi o tona hae, me te aro nui ki a ia kei kitea e ia he tika mo tona hae.

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