Me pehea koe e korero ai ki to tamaiti?

Ko te nuinga o tatou e hiahia ana kia angitu ia ki te whakatenatena i ana tamariki ki ana hiahia, ki te whakahaere ranei i tetahi korero angitu me te whai hua ki a ratou.

Kaua e hamama me te whakanui i to reo ki runga ake i te tikanga, me whakamahi noa i te reo mana ki te whakaiti i te whanonga kino.

Ngana ki te korero pai ki to tamaiti, kaua e korero ki a ia i nga mea e kore e tika kia mahia e ia, korero ki a ia me aha ia, kaua e kii "kao" ki a ia, tuu to ringa paru ki runga i te tuuru, korero ki a ia. , “Me horoi o ringaringa inaianei kua paru, katahi ka noho tatou.” i runga i te turu ki te panui i nga korero.

Kaua e tuhi ohorere ki to tamaiti, na te mea ko tana whakautu he mea ke atu.

Kaua e whakamahi i nga kupu kino, kaua ranei e kii i nga ahuatanga kino o te tamaiti, me whakaatu ki a ia ko tana whanonga kino ko te mea kaore koe e pai, ehara i a ia.

Ki te tangi to tamaiti ki a koe, kaua e whakanuia to reo ki a ia, kare he awhina, me kii atu kia kaua e korero penei ki a koe.

Kaua e whakataurite i te tamaiti ki etahi atu, kaore rawa i te awhina.

Kaua e whakararu i te tamaiti mo tetahi mea mena kei te riri ia.

Whakanuia to korero ki te tamaiti, kia panuihia e ia to reo tinana, kia harikoa, kia koa i roto i to korero ki a ia.

Source: The Perfect Nanny Book