Me pehea koe me te tangata kaitoi?

Ko te narcissism tetahi ahuatanga ka nui atu i te ngakau miimii, ka mau i nga kino kino e uaua ana ma te hunga e noho tata ana ki tenei mate te mauri.

A ape i te tautohetohe ki a ia 

Ka rite ki ta matou i korero ai i mua, kaore te kaikorero e kite i a ia ano he he, no reira he pai ki a koe kia kaua e tautohetohe ki a ia.

Arotahi ki ana whakatutukitanga 

He rite tonu tana ngoikoretanga, Mena kei te pirangi koe ki tetahi mea mai i a ia, arotahi ki te hiranga o ana whakatutukitanga me ana painga nui, kua riro pea i a koe tana aroha me te mura o nga kare o te tere ki a koe.

hei kaiwhakarongo 

Kare te tangata kaikorero e aroha ki te tangata mo o ratou ahua, mo o ratou ahuatanga ranei, kare hoki e rapu kia taurite ki te tangata, engari ka rapua e ia te tangata ka nui ake te aroha ki a ia ano i ona kanohi. Kia manawanui ki te whakarongo ki a ia me te mahi he mea nui ana kupu.

Kaua e whakahengia 

Mena kei te pirangi koe hei hoa riri oati mo tenei momo ahuatanga, whakahengia ia, ahakoa he tino ngawari te whakahee, kaore e taea te whakaae, engari ki tana whakaaro kua ngaro to hinengaro, ki te hiahia koe kia wikitoria ia mo ake tonu atu. , tautoko i ana mahi katoa, noho wahangu ranei.

Ētahi atu kaupapa: 

He aha te ahua o to kanohi ki a koe mo to ahuatanga?