Me pehea koe ki te tangata e wareware ana ki o whakaaro?

Ko te utu kino rawa atu ka pa ki a tatou mai i te tangata ko ia te mea tino nui o to tatou oranga ko te kore e aro ki a tatou, e kore tatou e mahara kua warewarehia e te tangata kihai nei i manaaki i nga wa o mua i tino aroha ai tatou ki a ia. Me pehea tatou ki te mahi i tenei taunga ka waiho he patunga hohonu i roto i a tatou ano?

1- Hei tohu atawhai ki a koe, me ngana koe ki te mohio ki te take i wehe ohorere ai tenei tangata, i warewarehia.

2- Kaua e tere ki te whakatau i tenei whanonga, na te mea ehara pea i te mangere, he whakaaro noa mo te wa poto, hoatu he taima.

3- Ki te tino mohio koe he pono tenei wareware, ehara i te mea he pohehe noa, he whakatupato tenei e whakatuma ana i te whanaungatanga.

4- A hi‘o mai i to ’na mana‘o e, e ere teie haapa‘o-ore-raa i te mau faahopearaa maitai i roto i te taatiraa, tera râ, e tumu faufaa roa te reira e mana‘o taa ê ai oe ia’na.

5- Ki te kore e whai hua te korero, ko te whakautu tino kaha ki te wareware ko te mangere.

6- Whakamātauria kia kaua e tino mangere kia kore e kitea to mahere me te whakaatu ki tetahi atu.

7- A faaite i te to‘eto‘e e te tâu‘a ore i teie haapa‘o-ore-raa, e eiaha e faariro ia’na ia mana‘o e te haape‘ape‘a ra oe i te reira, a tamau noa râ i te ora i to oe oraraa mai te au noa.

8- He mea maori kia kitea he whakautu riri mai i te hunga e wareware ana i o whakaaro, no reira kaua e whakakino, kaua hoki e whakaatu ki a ia ko te take o to warewaretanga ko tana kore e aro.

9- Ki te kore ia e mohio ki te mamae e pa ana ki a koe ma te kore e aro ki a ia, he tangata ngakau nanakia ia ka rongo noa i ona mamae, ka whakaae ranei koe ki tana ngakau nanakia, me whakatau ranei e koe nga take i roto i tenei hononga, i te mea e whakaute ana ia i ona whakaaro, me whakaute ano koe i o whakaaro.

10- Ki te tino aroha tenei tangata ki a koe, kia mohio koe he wa poto noa tana warewaretanga, kaua hoki e tuku kia noho tonu te kore whakaaro ki a korua.

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