Me pehea te tangata maia me te tangata ataahua

He aha te whakaaro whaiaro?
Ma te tangata e tino mohio ki ona kaha me ana mahi pai.Ko te whakapono o te tangata ki ana whakatau, ki ana whainga me ana kaha.He maha nga tangata e whakapono ana ko te maia e hono ana ki te whakahihi me te whakawhiti.He whakapono noa ki te kaha me te kaha ki te eke angitu me te whiwhi i nga mea e hiahia ana koe, engari ko te maia ehara i te mea ko nga mea katoa e korero ana, e mahi ana ranei. Ka mahi tika koe. Ki te tupono koe ki nga he, me whakaae koe ki te he. me te tohe, ki te kore e kiia ko te maia, ka kiia ko te tuunga o te tangata. karekau i whanau, he ahua ano kei roto i a ia, ehara i te mea ehara i te ahua o te ira, Whakanuia, he mea motuhake koe, ka noho mawehe atu i te tuku me te tuku.
Me pehea e whakawhirinaki ai koe ki a koe ano? 
1- Ko te tiaki i te ahua o waho me te huatau, ehara i te kakahu e whai uara ana ki te tangata, engari ko nga kakahu huatau ka hoatu he whakaaro ki a koe e maia ai koe, ma wai e tiaki to tatou huatau engari ko tatou anake.

2- Ko te hikoi he tohu i to maiatanga.

3- Ko te anga o to tinana i te wa e tu ana, e noho ana, kia tika to tuara me to mahunga ki runga, engari kaua e nui rawa, kia waiho hei kanohi mo te hunga e korero tika ana koe, ka pa atu tenei ki etahi atu, ka whakawhirinaki koe ki a koe ano.

4- Ki te whakanui i a koe ano me te tatau i o painga me o hua pai kia mohio ai koe ki to whakaaro-whaiaro me to whakaaro-whaiaro ka tino maia koe.
5- I a koe i roto i te kauhau, i hea ranei, noho ki te rarangi tuatahi, i te mea ko te nuinga o tatou e rapu ana i nga waahi whakamutunga hei nohoanga, i te mea e whakaatu ana tenei i te kore o te maia ki a koe ano. mua ka awhina koe ki te whakakore i te mataku, te awangawanga me te awangawanga.

6- Me mihi koe ki etahi atu kia kore ratou e mahi kino ki a koe me te whakaaro he horihori koe, na reira ka whakaiti i to maiatanga.

7-I te wa e korero ana, kia kaha, kia kaha te korero, kia marama to reo, ka marama etahi ki taau e korero nei, engari kaua e whakanuia to reo, kia kite etahi atu i a koe, kia ruha ai to korero.

8- A faaite i to ratou oaoa e to ratou oto ia vetahi ê, ia ite outou i te faufaaraa o to outou vairaa mai, e e faarahi te reira i to outou tiaturi ia outou iho.