He aha te tangata tinihanga??? He tangata tinihanga te tangata???

He maha nga wahine e tu ana hei patunga i mua i tetahi patai, koinei te tangata i pakaru o ratou ngakau, kua ngaro to ratou maia ki a ia ano, ka waiho te kino kino ki o raatau hononga a meake nei. ?

E kore e taea te kii he tangata tinihanga te tangata i roto i tona ahua, engari ka taea te kii kei te rapu tonu te tane i te wahine rongonui i toia e ia i roto i ona whakaaro, te wahine tino pai ranei, a ko te mea e kore e taea!!! !

Ko te whakaaro o te tangata tino tika ehara i te mea ngawari ki te noho, mena he mea, ko te wahine i roto i tetahi take he mea whakahihiri i tona ahua me tona ahua wahine ki te tane, he maha tonu ana tohu ki a ia he whaainga e whai ana kia tae atu ki a ia kia whiwhi. tata ki a ia, engari ehara tenei i te mea he tangata tinihanga te tangata i tona ahua, ka kitea te tane Ko te wahine e noho ana i roto i tona ngakau ka tau ki roto, he uaua ki a ia te whakapoapoa ki tetahi atu.

 Waihoki, me ata noho te wahine ki te taha o te tane, kia matara atu i nga raruraru ka taea, kia kore ai te tane e uru ki roto ki te tinihanga mo tetahi take. Ko te tirohanga a te wahine mo te tinihanga me tana mahi i roto Ka whakaaro pea te wahine ko etahi o nga whanonga o te tane he tinihanga, engari kaore e kiia he tinihanga.se!!

Ka taea e te wahine te pupuri i tana hoa mai i te tinihanga ma te whakaae ki tana mahi me te kore e whakararuraru i a ia me tana puhaehae mau tonu me te pohehe, me te hanga i tana hononga ki a ia kia kotahi i runga i te whakawhirinaki me te mohio, me te hiahia ia ki te noho whanui; He hononga whakahoa, he whakawhirinaki, he mohio, he whakaae, no reira he mahi nui te wahine ki te pupuri i te whakakotahitanga o te whanaungatanga, me te pupuri atu i te tinihanga. I tua atu i te mahi a te wahine, kare ano hoki te tane e kore he kawenga, no reira me whakapau kaha ia ki te toro atu me tana hoa aroha ranei ki tetahi hononga kaha me te whakahirahira, kia kaua hoki e whakarere i tana ruma hoa mo te ruarua me te whakapae i roto i te te whanaungatanga, me te marama ki a ia, me te whakamaarama i a ia, me te mahi ki te whakanui ake i tona maiatanga ki a ia ano, E hiahia ana ia ki te whakamarama ki a ia i nga tikanga o tana mahi, kaua hoki e tango i enei ahuatanga he take hei whakatika i te tinihanga, kia tata ki nga wahine i te utu o tana whanaungatanga, me te whakaae me te mohio ki tana hoa, me te whakapono ki a ia, me te kore e whai ki te whakarereke i a ia, ki te tono ranei kia rere ke atu tona ahua.