Me pehea koe mo tona pakeke?

- Te whakapai ake i ona hononga ki te hunga e tata ana ki a ia: Ngana ki te whakapakari i to whanaungatanga ki a ia me te whakakaha i ana whanaungatanga kia whiwhi ai ia i nga pukenga korero me te korero ki etahi atu, me te pai ki te whakarongo me te whakaae ki nga whakaaro o etahi atu.

- Te kore ohorere: Kia tupato koe kei te kino te tangata whakakeke ki te mahi ohorere me te tono tukurua, no reira kia mawehe atu koe i te ohorere i roto i o tono mena ka paopaohia na te mea ka piki ake te pakeke.

A ape i te riri ki a ia: Kaua e whakahee i a ia mo ana whakatau karekau i te tika me te whakamohiotanga ki a ia he mea nui ki te whakapuaki i nga whakatau ki a koe.

Whakaaetia kia rite tonu. Whakamātauria ki te whakaae ki a ia me te kore e ngana ki te whakarereke i tona ahua kia rite ki taau e pai ai.

- Korero ki a ia ma te marie me te aroha, a ka whakahoki mai ia ki a koe, ka tautoko, ka akiaki ia ia i roto i nga hikoinga katoa

Kia mohio koe ki a ia. Ka kitea te whanonga mohio na roto i te kore e tutaki ki te pakeke me te kaha o te hamama ahakoa i he te tangata whakakeke nei, ka waiho kia ata noho ko ia anake, katahi ka hoki atu ki a ia me te ngana ki te whakatuturu i te whakaaro tika.

Ki te whakaaro ko te whakapono ki te whakaaro o tenei tangata whakakeke, ehara i te mea he tuku ki ana whakaritenga me te tuku ki tana whakaaro, engari he tangata nui ia, na tenei ka whai waahi ki te rongoa i a ia me te whakakore i te whakapakeketanga o te ngakau. ki a ia mo te wa katoa, ka eke ki te whainga e hiahiatia ana..