I te nuinga o te wa, ko nga tohutohu i roto i te marena me te pupuri i tona harikoa kei te wahine anake.

• Kaua e tawai ki a ia, kaua hoki e whakamaumahara kino ki tona whanau, no te mea ka wareware ia kia mau tonu te ora, engari e kore e wareware i a ia te tawai.
• Kaua e utaina ki runga i a ia to tikanga hei ahorangi ohaoha, matū ranei, kaore hoki ia e mohio ki aua mea, ehara i te mea he kuare ia, he kore matauranga ranei, kua kuraina a Fahmy ki tetahi atu mara kaore pea koe e aro atu.

• Me whakataurite e koe to aroha ki a ia me to aroha ki to whanau, kaua hoki e he tetahi wahi o ratou, no te mea kare ia e kino ki a ratou, engari e kino ana koe ki to wehewehenga mai i a ratou he tangata ke ki a ratou, wareware he mea rerekee. Whakaarohia he taapiri hou ki to whanau.

• Homai te maia ki to wahine, kaua e waiho hei tangata whai i to tupuni, hei pononga mahi i au whakahau, engari me whakatenatena ia kia whai mana ake, kia whai whakaaro, me tana whakatau. Korero ki a ia i roto i o mahi, a ki te kore koe e pai ki tana whakaaro, paopao ma te pai.
• Kaua ia e hae ki tetahi o nga wahine hei katakata, i te mea kei te whakatuwhera koe i te huarahi mo ia ki te komuhumuhu me te ruarua ki a koe, ahakoa te nui o tana whakaatu ki mua i a koe i tona kore aro.
• A haapopou i ta oe vahine ia rave ana‘e oe i te hoê ohipa haapopou e eiaha e mana‘o e te ohipa ta oe e rave i roto i to oe utuafare, e ohipa natura ïa e ore e au ia haamauruuruhia, e a faaea i te faahapa e te faaino e eiaha e faaau ia ’na ia vetahi ê.

• Ka whakamohio atu ahau ki to wahine ka taea e koe te tiaki i a ia i te taha ohaoha, kaua hoki e kopikopiko i a ia ahakoa pehea te pai, ahakoa pehea tona pai Ko koe te tino whakakapi i tona papa.
• Mena kei te mate to wahine, kaua e waiho ko ia anake.

• Ko to wahine ehara i a koe: ahakoa te hiranga o te hototahitanga hinengaro i waenga i a koe me to wahine, engari me mihi koe ki nga ahuatanga rerekee motuhake ki a koe.
• Ka taea e to harikoa marena te haere tonu ma te whakahou i to aroha mo to wahine.

• Kaua e rite ki nga tane e kore nei e kite he aha nga mea pai me te pai o a ratou wahine, e kore e titiro ki a ratou engari ma nga kanohi o te ngoikoretanga me te whakararu. ko te rereke o tenei whakapono.
• Ka whakatau koe ki te marena i te wahine, me whakaae koe ki a ia hei wahine nau, kare he mawhiti mai i tera i muri i te marenatanga, ka kokoti noa koe i to mauahara ki tana pouri me tana kore i roto i te ao.

• Te ti'araa tane mau o te haapa'o maitai i roto i te mau ohipa atoa, te tuuraa i te mau mea i roto i te hi'oraa, e te arata'iraa i te pahi no te ora i ni'ai te e'a no te paruru e te oaoa.