Zizindikiro zinayi zosonyeza kuti muli m’chikondi
Zizindikiro zinayi zosonyeza kuti muli m’chikondi
Zizindikiro zinayi zosonyeza kuti muli m’chikondi
Kugunda kwa mtima, kupsinjika kwadzidzidzi, kusokonezeka kwakanthawi, mungamve zizindikiro izi ndi zina pambuyo poimbira foni, meseji yam'mawa, kapenanso msonkhano ndi wokondedwa wanu, kaya chifukwa cha chimwemwe chopambanitsa, manyazi, kapena mkhalidwe. za chisokonezo, zizindikiro zimenezi ndi wamba pakati Ambiri okonda.
kukumana mwadala
Chizoloŵezi choyang'ana, monga chizindikiro cha kugwa m'chikondi, komanso chikhumbo chofuna kulankhula ndi wokondedwayo, tiyerekeze malo wamba kwa maphwando awiriwo, chifukwa sizingatheke kuyang'ana kulibe kapena kulankhula naye. Ngati wokondedwayo palibe, ndiye kuti chizindikiro chachitatu cha chikondi ndi: kuthamangira kumene iye ali, ndiye "mwadala" kuyandikira ndi kukhala pafupi ndi iye, Ibn Hazm akuti, ndipo atatha dala kuyandikira wokondedwayo, amachedwetsa mwadala. kusuntha kutali ndi iye, chifukwa adalumikizana naye ndikufulumira Kukakumana naye, chifukwa cha chikondi, kotero "amachepetsera kulankhula kulikonse kwakukulu komwe kumafuna kulekanitsidwa kwake" ndipo amafuna kukhala pafupi naye, mwa njira iliyonse yotheka.
chisokonezo kukumbukira
Chisokonezo chimene munthu amavutika nacho akamva dzina la wokondedwa ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za chikondi, koma zimatsimikizira kuti chisokonezo chichitike ngakhale wokonda akuwona zomwe zikuwoneka ngati wokondedwa wake, osati wokondedwa wake. Ndiko kuti, kuchitika kwa chisokonezo chifukwa chongowona zofanana, ndiye bwanji ngati diso likugwera pa choyambirira?
kukhutitsidwa modabwitsa
Munthu nthaŵi zonse amayang’ana anthu amene ali naye pamtima panthaŵi ya nsautso kapena chimwemwe, m’nthaŵi za nsautso ndi zodetsa nkhaŵa kapena chimwemwe ndi chipambano.
Mudzadziŵa kuti mumam’konda munthu ameneyu pamene mukuyang’ana kuti muuze zinthu zimene ndi zanu, ndipo simungauze munthu wina, chifukwa ndiye yekha amene angakhale pothawirapo panu.
Ndipo mudzamdalira pa nthawi ya masautso, kotero mudzaona kuti ali wokhoza kukusungani, kukuthandizani, ndi kukupeputsani m’masautso anu, ndipo simudzazengereza kamodzi kumfikira.
kumuchitira nsanje
Kumuchitira nsanje ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zakugwa m'chikondi zomwe munthuyu amakuuzani za munthu wina yemwe akufuna kuyandikira kwa iye kapena pali malingaliro achifundo pakati pawo kapena ubale kapena ubale wamphamvu, kotero mumafunsa za mtundu wa ubale uwu ndi mtundu wa mayanjano ndi kukula kwa chifundo uku komwe, ndipo musakhale otsimikiza kupatula ngati munthu uyu atakuuzani kuti iwo ndi abwenzi chabe ndipo alibe malingaliro ena amtundu uliwonse, mudzapeza kuti moto wanu chifuwa chazirala ndipo mtima wako wasiya kugunda kwambiri moti ukanangothyoka nthiti.
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