Ngati muli ndi zizolowezi izi, ndinu anzeru m'malingaliro

nzeru zamaganizo : Ndiko kukhoza kwa munthu kuchita zabwino ndi iyemwini ndi ena kotero kuti apeze mlingo waukulu wa chimwemwe kwa iyemwini ndi awo okhala pafupi naye.

Ndi zizolowezi zotani za anthu omwe ali ndi luntha lamalingaliro? 
Amadzizindikira bwino, popeza amatha kudziyang'ana moona mtima, ndipo amasiyanitsa malingaliro aumwini ndi malingaliro awo.

Kukhoza kudzilamulira okha, kulamulira zilakolako, ndi kulamulira maganizo ndi zilakolako, ndipo sakhala ndi chipwirikiti, ndipo samangoganizira za iwo okha, komanso amamvetsetsa maganizo a ena.

Kumvera chisoni anthu omwe ali nawo pafupi: amatha kumvetsetsa zomwe akufuna, zosowa, ndi malingaliro a ena, ndipo amakonda kumvetsera bwino aliyense wowazungulira, zomwe zimapereka ubale wabwino ndi anthu ambiri.

Changu: Amamvetsa bwino mmene akumvera mumtima, motero angathe kulimbikitsa ndi kukulitsa malingaliro awo, kuchititsa kuti iwowo ndi ena azikhala osangalala, komanso amachita zinthu mwaulemu.

Kuzindikira malingaliro awo oyipa, motero nthawi zambiri amazengereza kupanga zisankho zofunika mpaka atakhazikika m'maganizo.