Samalani.. umunthu wanu umakhudza thanzi lanu

Munthu ndi unyinji wa kumverera ndi kumverera, kukhudzidwa ndi zinthu zambiri, kuphatikizapo zamkati ndi zakunja. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti umunthu ndi khalidwe la munthu zingakhudze thanzi lake. Dziwani m'nkhaniyi momwe umunthu wanu umakhudzira thanzi lanu ndi thupi lanu:
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*Munthu wopupuluma:

Kodi mumavutika kudikirira? Kodi ndinu osasamala popanga zisankho? Izi ndi mikhalidwe yamunthu mopupuluma. Mumanjenjemera ndi kukhumudwa nthawi zambiri, ndipo mumakhala okonda kuchita zinthu zoopsa chifukwa chakuchita zinthu mopupuluma. Pamenepa, akatswiri akukhulupirira kuti inuyo ndinu okhoza kukhala ndi zilonda zam'mimba kuposa ena. Ofufuza amakhulupirira kuti munthu wothamanga amasunga asidi wambiri m'mimba, zomwe zimawonjezera mwayi wokhala ndi zilonda zam'mimba.

Munthu woyembekezera:

Kukhala ndi chiyembekezo komanso kukhala ndi chiyembekezo ndizofunikira kwambiri pa umunthu wanu. Muli ndi chiyembekezo ndipo mumayembekezera zabwino zokha kuchokera kuzinthu zomwe mumachita m'moyo. Monga momwe muli wololera kutenga zoopsa ndi maudindo, simungathe kulamulidwa ndi mantha oipitsitsa. Motero, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti anthu amene akuyembekezera zinthu zabwino sangadwale matenda a mtima ngati a anthu opanda chiyembekezo.

Munthu amene amakonda kusangalatsa ena:

Kodi mumasamala kwambiri za malingaliro a anthu ena? Kodi nthawi zonse mumayang'ana malo apakati kuti muwakhutiritse ndikuganizira momwe akumvera? Kodi zimakuvutani kudzisamalira nokha ndikuchita zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala popanda chosokoneza chilichonse chakunja? Dziwani kuti ndinu ochulukirapo kuposa ena omwe mumakhala okhumudwa nthawi zonse komanso otopa.

*Munthu wamanyazi:

Ngati simukonda kucheza komanso osamasuka m'magulu akuluakulu, mumakhala ndi umunthu wamanyazi. Simumalankhula zomwe zikukuvutitsani ndipo mungafune kudalira nokha kuposa kugawana ndi ena. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti manyazi amatha kusokoneza magwiridwe antchito a chitetezo chamthupi, ndipo izi zitha kulumikizidwa ndi kuchuluka kwa machitidwe amanjenje achifundo. Kuchokera pano, mutha kutenga matenda a virus komanso chimfine.

Neurotic umunthu:

Kodi ndinu ofulumira kukwiya ndi kukwiya msanga? Kodi nthawi zonse mumawopsezedwa ndipo mumakonda kupatsa zinthu ndi zovuta kukhala zofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe zilili? Chenjerani ndi umunthu wanu wamanjenje, womwe umakhudza kwambiri thanzi la mtima wanu. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti kupanikizika kwambiri kungayambitse matenda a mtima ndi imfa yadzidzidzi.
Umunthu woona mtima komanso wowonekera:

Ndinu ndithu udindo, wanzeru, wolungama ndi kukana chisalungamo. Mumamvetseranso zazing'ono kwambiri ndikukana kunyenga ndi kunyenga. Chifukwa chake, simudziyika pachiwopsezo ndikusamala kwambiri chitetezo chanu ndi thanzi lanu. Ofufuza amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi umunthu umenewu amakhala ndi moyo wautali.

Adasinthidwa ndi

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed