Makhalidwe makumi awiri omwe amadziwika ndi munthu wamwano

Pali mikhalidwe yambiri yomwe imadziwika ndi anthu odana, ndipo mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri izi tikukufotokozerani izi:

1. Munthu waukali ndi munthu amene samva mmene ena akumvera n’komwe; Iye amamva chisoni chifukwa cha chisangalalo chawo, ndipo amasangalala kwambiri chifukwa cha chisoni chawo ndi masautso awo.
2. Munthu woipidwa amakhala ndi malingaliro osalekeza a kukhala otsika ndi kusadzidalira; Choncho amaponya zolakwa zake ndi zolakwa zake kwa amene amamuda.
3. Chikhumbo chachikulu cha munthu woipidwa ndicho kuona chisoni, kusakondwa, kuzunzika, ndi nkhaŵa pamaso pa amene amamuda.
4. Munthu wankhanza amadziŵika kuti ndi wosayanjana ndi anthu, ndipo amakhala ndi maubwenzi ochepa ndi anthu ena; Sadziwa tanthauzo la chikondi ndi ubwenzi, sazindikira kufunika kwake, ndipo amadana ndi ena.
5. Woipidwa nthawi zambiri amalengeza za ena mwadala potchula maudindo osawafunira ndi zolakwa zawo, ndi kuiwala zabwino zonse ndi chithandizo ndi chithandizo chimene ampatsa; Wodana ndi munthu wokana.
6. Munthu wamwano adziwika ndi lilime lake lakuthwa, ndipo sazengereza kulankhula mawu opweteka pamaso pa amene ali pafupi naye.
7. Wodana ndi nkhope ziwiri; Amaonetsa zina osati zimene amabisa ndi kuzibisa mkati mwake.
8. Munthu waukali amadziŵika ndi kusakhulupirira ena, zochita zawo ndi zolinga zawo, ndipo amatanthauzira zochitika zonse zomuzungulira ndi zolinga zoipa.
9. Munthu woipidwa sangathe kuugwira mtima potchula dzina la munthu amene amamukwiyira, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amaoneka wokwiya komanso wokwiya, ndipo sangabise zimenezo ngakhale adziyerekezera mochuluka bwanji.
10. Munthu wachabechabe ndi munthu wachinyengo; Kumene amasonyeza chikondi ndi chikondi kwa iwo amene ali ndi chidani ndi iye, koma mkati mwake iye ali ndi chidani chosayerekezeka ndi njiru pa iye.
11. Njira imodzi imene munthu waudani amagwiritsa ntchito ndiyo kuika anthu odana naye m’mikhalidwe yoipa, ndipo cholinga chake n’kupangitsa anthu ena kumuseka ndi kumuseka.
12. Munthu wobwezera amasangalala kuputa mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo wa anthu amene amadana naye ndi kumuputa.
13. Munthu wankhanza amachita nsanje, makamaka chifukwa cha kupambana ndi kuchita bwino kwa anthu ena.
14. Wacipongwe ndi wosakhulupirika; Iye ndi wachinsinsi wachinsinsi komanso wachinyengo ku Secretariat.
15. Chimene chimadetsa nkhawa kwambiri munthu wankhanza ndi kubwezera ndi kuwononga moyo wa munthu amene amamuda.
16. Wachipongwe amasaka mpata; Saphonya mpata wovulaza munthu amene amasirira.
17. Munthu woipidwa nthawi zonse amadzinamizira pamaso pa ena kuti iye ndi waubwenzi, wachikondi, wachitsanzo chabwino, ndiponso wa zolinga zabwino kwa anthu amene ali nawo pafupi.
18. Munthu woipidwa nthawi zonse amafuna kunyozetsa munthu amene ali ndi chidani pa iye, ndipo sapereka njira iliyonse yopezera izi, kaya kumuneneza kuti wachita zoipa zomwe sanachite, kapena zomwe sananene, ndi zina zotero.
19. Munthu wamwano sakonda kuthandiza ena.
20. Munthu wamwano sakonda zabwino, kupambana ndi kupambana kwa aliyense.