Luso laulemu m'mawu

Kaŵirikaŵiri, makhalidwe amakhudza kudzilemekeza, kulemekeza ena ndi kuchita nawo zabwino.Amasonyezera makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino, nzeru ndi luso lothana ndi zochitika, ndipo katchulidwe kake ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe sichimasiyana kuchokera kudziko lina. wina.
Komanso, khalidwe labwino limene timatsatira nthawi zonse limabweretsa zotsatira zabwino pazochitika zilizonse, makamaka mu zomwe zimatchedwa luso la kulankhula….

1- Zaka:
Wokamba nkhaniyo ayenera kuganizira zaka za wokamba nkhani amene wakhala naye, ngati munthuyo ndi wamkulu kuposa inu, muyenera kumupatsa mpata woti alankhule poyamba osati kumudula mawu. woyankhula, chifukwa m'badwo uliwonse uli ndi zachilendo zake.

2- liwu la mawu:
Ndikofunikira kwambiri mu luso la khalidwe labwino kusankha kamvekedwe koyenera ka mawu pamene mukupewa momwe mungathere phokoso lalikulu chifukwa limapereka malingaliro oipa kwa munthuyo, makamaka kuseka mokweza sikuvomerezeka mu luso la ulemu.

3- Kuyankhula patebulo lodyera mukudya:
Osati kuchita nawo makambirano akuthwa, koma kulankhula nkhani zosangalatsa, popewa kulankhula pamene akudya, kapena kuika dzanja pakamwa polankhula.

4- Luso lakumvetsera:
Wokamba nkhaniyo ayenera kukhala wosamala polankhula, koma poyankhapo ayeneranso kukhala womvetsera wabwino ndi kupatsa winayo mpata wofotokoza maganizo ake popanda kumudula mawu, ngakhale ngati sakugwirizana naye m’maganizo.
Wolankhula mwanzeru kwambiri ndi womvetsera wabwino

5- Osanena kwa amene walakwitsa (Mwalakwitsa..) koma nenani: (Mungakhale olondola, koma ndikuganiza.) …

6- Osatengera zachinyengo:

Kulankhula ndi kuchita kumafuna khama ndi kukhazikika. Monga kugwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe mwaphunzira posachedwapa ndi omwe mukufuna kuwagwiritsa ntchito, kapena mayendedwe ena a thupi, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mawu m'zinenero zosiyanasiyana, monga kunena liwu lachingerezi, liwu lachiarabu, liwu lachifalansa.
7- Pewani kukamba za inu nokha, zamphamvu zanu, thanzi lanu kapena matenda anu.

8 Ngati nkhaniyo ikukhudza nkhani imene ili kutali kwambiri ndi zimene mukudziwa kapena chikhalidwe chanu, ndi ulemu kumvetsera ndipo n’chinthu chanzeru kuyesa kuimvetsera ndi kuimvetsa.
9- Khala wodzichepetsa pakulankhula kwako ndipo pempha chilolezo kuti utenge mawuwo.
10- Musanong’oneze munthu m’makutu mwanu muli pagulu
11- Osayang’anizana ndi ena mwa opezekapo pomwe amawakodola ena
12- Osanena (iye) kapena (iye) za munthu wachitatu amene alipo pakati pa okamba

13- Musamakometsera ndipo musakhale m’modzi mwa osyasyalika

14- Yesetsani kuyamika ndi kuyamika mwaulemu komanso mwaulemu.

 

 

Adasinthidwa ndi

Psychology Consultant

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed