Momwe mungachitire ndi mwamuna wokwiya komanso wotopetsa

“Ndimavutika maganizo ndipo zimandipha.” Akazi ambiri amabwereza mawu amenewa chifukwa mwamuna alibe udindo m’banja monga mmene mkazi amafunira.” M’malo mwake, mwamuna amakhala ndi khalidwe lovutika maganizo kwambiri limene limapangitsa kuti pakhale khwinya. m'nyumba atangolowa, bata lachisoni limagonjetsa malowa ndi okhalamo, chifukwa mwamunayo amanyamula zizindikiro za nambala ya nkhope yake "111", kusonyeza kukwiyitsa pamphumi ndi koshary.

Amuna ena amaona kuti ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zofunika za kutchuka zimene ziyenera kukhala pakati pa anthu a m’banjamo, monga kuti nthawi zina ndi chikhalidwe chobadwa nacho pakati pa abambo ndi ana aamuna, kuti ngati mwamuna afewetsa ndi banja lake ndi kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa iwo, kutchuka kwake kumatayika, ndipo ili ndi lingaliro lolakwika koma ndilofala, kapena mwina Ndi chilengedwe mwa munthu, koma vuto ndiloti mkazi amadzimva kuti ali yekha ndi mwamuna amene sagawana naye mphindi iliyonse yokoma, ndipo samawona moyo uliwonse koma ntchito ndi zothodwetsa popanda mphindi iliyonse yodzisangalatsa ndi anthu apamtima ake, ndipo amuna amtundu wotere amafunikira luso pochita zinthu.

Ndicho chifukwa chake timayika uphungu m'manja mwa mkazi kuti athe kukonza chikhalidwe cha mwamuna wake, ndipo chombo cha moyo chikhoza kupitirizabe ndi zovuta zochepa:

1- Ngati simukufuna kuti nyumba yanu ikhale yachisoni komanso chete monga chonchi, dziyenerezeni kuti mutenge udindo wa woyambitsa pankhaniyi, ndipo mudzadula zinthu zoseketsa ndikutsegula naye mitu yosangalatsa.

2- Onetsetsani kuti inu ndi banja lanu muli ndi zochitika zina zomwe si zachizolowezi, ndipo mudzakhala ndi udindo wonse wokonzekera zimenezo, monga kukonza pikiniki kumapeto kwa sabata kumalo aliwonse osangalatsa, ndikusewera limodzi ndi ana. .

3- Samalani kuti pali zokonda zofala pakati panu, monga kujambula kapena kukongoletsa kosavuta, kapena kuti nonse mumawonera TV kapena kugawana nawo ana anu akuwonera makanema ojambula, mwachitsanzo, zomwe ana amachita zimakhala zosangalatsa mwa iwo okha, komanso ngakhale mwamuna satenga nawo mbali, motero mumasuka ndi ana anu.

4- Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi anthu odziwana nawo monga achibale, abwenzi kapena oyandikana nawo pafupi, kuti mutha kupita nawo kokacheza kapena kuwachezera ndikusangalatsidwa ndi zimenezo, kuti zosangalatsa zonse zisakhale kwa mwamuna wako yekha. , amene angakukhumudwitseni nthaŵi zina ndipo motero kukhalabe m’kati mwa kuvutika maganizo.

5- Yesani momwe mungathere kukhala ndi abwenzi apamtima, inu ndi amuna anu, omwe mumakonzekera kuyenderana ndi mabanja awo, ngakhale pakapita nthawi, chifukwa maulendo otere amasintha kwambiri kuchokera kumayendedwe ndi moyo wokhazikika komanso zokambirana zanthawi zonse.

6- Muyenera kukhala ndi zokonda kapena zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda mukamazichita, popeza izi sizimakukakamizani kudikirira kuti wina akusangalatseni kapena kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa inu.

7- Pomaliza, ngati wachulukidwa ndi zinyengo ndipo khalidwe la mwamuna wako ndilomwe likulamulira, werengera izi ndi Mulungu.Inde, imodzi mwa ntchito za mwamuna pokhudzana ndi mkazi ndi kumutonthoza ndi kumusunga.