Momwe mungasungire zoyipa kuchokera kwa inu molingana ndi lamulo la kukopa?

Chowonadi cha moyo wanu tsopano ndi chopangidwa ndi zomwe mumaganiza m'mbuyomu ndipo zomwe mukuganiza pakali pano ndi tsogolo lanu, ndipo mphamvu ya mphamvu ya zinthu imakhala kulikonse komwe mumayang'ana.

Anthu ambiri amaganiza mopambanitsa za mavuto awo n’kumangoganizira kwambiri za mavutowo, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti aipireipire n’kuyamba kumamatira kwambiri pa moyo wawo. matenda, koma nthawi zonse amalankhula za matenda awo ndi kuopa Matenda, safuna moyo wovuta, koma amangoganizira za kukwera mtengo kwa moyo, ndalama zokhazikika, ndi kusowa kwa ntchito.

Muyenera kudziwa zomwe simukuzifuna m'moyo wanu ndikuzichotsa m'malingaliro anu ndi m'mawu anu kwathunthu, zomwe ndi chilichonse chomwe chimatsutsana ndi kupambana, chuma, thanzi ndi chisangalalo.Kuganiza, malingaliro kapena mawu pazomwe simukufuna.

Monga momwe izi zikukhudza maubwenzi anu ndi anthu, momwe mumaonera anthu ndizomwe zimatsimikizira ubale wanu ndi iwo.Munthu amene amadandaula kwambiri za omwe ali pafupi naye ndi omwe ali pachiopsezo chachikulu cha kuvulazidwa ndipo amalandira kuchokera kwa munthu wina chirichonse chomwe chili choyipa ndi choipa. ndipo zosiyana ndi zoona.

Choncho muyenera kusintha maganizo anu kuchokera ku chinthu chimene “sikufuna” n’kupita ku chinthu chimene “mukufuna” ndi kutembenuza dandaulo lirilonse kukhala chikhumbo champhamvu chotsutsana nacho. pa matenda, ganizirani za thanzi, ndipo m’malo modandaula.” Pamavutowo, pangani chikhumbo chanu chofuna kupeza njira zothetsera mavutowo, ndipo m’malo modandaula za makhalidwe oipa a anthu, choyamba pangani maganizo anu kukhala abwino.