Kodi mumalankhula bwanji ndi mwana wanu?

Ambiri aife timalakalaka kuti apambane potsimikizira ana ake za zomwe akufuna, kapena kukambirana nawo bwino komanso kopindulitsa.Choncho, pali mfundo zofunika komanso zofunikira pakukwaniritsa zomwe zikufunika:

Osakuwa kapena kukweza mawu kuposa momwe zimakhalira, ingogwiritsani ntchito mawu aulamuliro kuti muchepetse khalidwe loipa.

Yesetsani mmene mungathere kulankhula ndi mwana wanu molimbikitsa, m’malo momangomuuza zimene sayenera kuchita, muuzeni zimene ayenera kuchita, m’malo monena kuti “ayi” kwa iye, ikani dzanja lanu lodetsedwa pampando, lankhulani naye. , “Tiyeni kasambe m’manja mwanu popeza adetsedwa ndiye tikhala.” pampando kuti akuŵerengereni nkhaniyo).

Musamauze mwana wanu zolemba zanu mwadzidzidzi, chifukwa zomwe angachite sizingakhale zina koma kukaniza.

Musagwiritse ntchito mawu achipongwe kapena kumutcha mwanayo makhalidwe oipa, musonyezeni momveka bwino kuti khalidwe lake loipa ndilo zomwe simukukonda osati iye.

Ngati mwana wanu wakulakwirani, musamuuzenso mawu anu, sizithandiza, mungomuuza kuti asalankhulane nanu motero.

Musayerekeze mwanayo ndi ena, sizithandiza konse.

Musanyengerere mwanayo pa chinachake ngati akupsya mtima.

Wonjezerani kucheza kwanu ndi mwanayo, muloleni awerenge chiyankhulo cha thupi lanu ndikukhala wansangala ndi wokondwa pokambirana naye.

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