Kodi mungatani ndi bwenzi lanu ngati ali ndi nkhawa?

Kodi mungatani ndi bwenzi lanu ngati ali ndi nkhawa?

• Muyenera kuchita naye zinthu m’njira yoti mungadzutse chikondi chake posamuyerekezera ndi wina aliyense.Ngati munali pa chibwenzi, musayerekeze bwenzi lanu loyamba ndi chibwenzi chanu chapano, kapena musamuyerekeze ndi chibwenzi chanu. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana kapena mlongo, munthu aliyense ali ndi chikhalidwe chake, zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala wapadera wosiyana ndi wina aliyense, ndipo muyenera kupewa kwambiri kufananiza ndi bwenzi lanu.
• Kuti mukhale wokondedwa m’moyo wake komanso kuti musanyalanyaze inu, muyenera kumvetsera nkhani yake, chifukwa izi zimakuthandizani kuti mumvetse bwino bwenzi lanu, koma sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala wanzeru ndi wamanyazi polankhula naye. iye, koma muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito luntha lanu kusankha nthawi yoyenera kuyankhula pa nthawi ina ndi kumvetsera nthawi ina kuti akope chidwi ndi inu Osanyalanyaza inu m’moyo wake ndi kukhala naye chidwi.
• Kukulitsa malingaliro achikondi ndi chikondi mwa kugawana zakukhosi, ndi mawu achikondi omwe amathandiza okwatirana awiriwo kuti agwirizane ndi kuvomereza winayo, ndi chikhumbo chofuna kupitiriza naye, izi ndizofunikira kwambiri panthawi ya chibwenzi, ndi njira yothandiza kuti apitirize kukhala naye limodzi. bweretsani mitima yawo chifupi, kuchotsa zotchinga pakati pawo, ndi kukwaniritsa chikondi ndi mgwirizano pakati pawo, kuwonjezera pa kuthandiza aliyense wa iwo Pa kuunika kusankha kwa bwenzi lake, ndi kutsimikizira kusinthana kwake maganizo enieni a chikondi, chimene chiri maziko a kukhazikika. ndi kupambana kwa ubale wa m’banja.
• Kumudziwa bwino ndikuyesera kumumvetsetsa, bwenzi liyenera kudziwa umunthu wa mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo ndi kudziwa makhalidwe ake, khalidwe lake ndi zomwe amakonda, ndipo pobwezera amamulola kuti amuyandikire ndi kumudziwa bwino, ndi izi. zimachitika mwa kulankhulana kwabwino ndi iye ndi kupanga makambitsirano atanthauzo, ndi kukambitsirana kosangalatsa pakati pawo pafupipafupi, ndi kumufunsa za nkhani zimenezi, kuwonjezera pa maulendo a pabanja Kunyumba, zimene zimamupangitsa iye kuloŵa m’dziko lake mowonjezereka ndi kuphunzira za moyo wake, ndi kuthekera kwa kufunsa banja lake za iye m’njira yabwino ndi yosalunjika; Kuti apeze mayankho ku zinthu zomwe sanamufunse.
• Kulimbitsa ubale ndi banja latsopano Mkwatibwi ayenera kulemekeza makolo a bwenzi lake ndi achibale ake, kuyesetsa kulimbitsa ubale wawo, ndi kupeza chikondi ndi chikondi, popeza ali ngati banja lake latsopano limene adakhalapo, kuwonjezera pa kubweretsa mtunda pakati pawo, ndi kuwonjezera kusilira kwake kwa mkaziyo akaona chikondi cha banja lake pa iye, chisamaliro chake chabwino ndi umunthu wake Mkazi wokoma mtima amene ayenera kukondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa, ndipo potero amabwezeranso khalidwe lomwelo ndipo amafuna kutero. kuvomereza ndi chikondi cha makolo ake ndi achibale ake.
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