Kodi mumatani ndi munthu wankhope ziwiri?

Mtumiki (SAW) adati: “Mukapeza oipitsitsa kwambiri mwa anthu okhala ndi nkhope ziwiri, amene amawadzera iwo ali ndi nkhope imodzi, ndipo amawadzera awa ndi wina.

Kuopsa kwa chinyengo n’koopsa kwambiri kuposa makhalidwe onse oipa amene anthu angakumane nawo, choncho tiyenera kusamala kwambiri pochita zinthu ndi anthu otere.

khalani maso 

Iye ndi wochenjera kwambiri ndi wodekha pamaso pa munthu mwiniyo ndi pamaso pa iwo amene amakonda kuwonekera pamaso pawo mwa njira yabwino, pamene iye akuyamika ndi chiwonetsero cha chikondi, kuyamikira ndi kudzichepetsa, ndipo izi zimatsutsana ndi zenizeni zake. khulupirirani iye.

Osadabwa kwambiri 

Mtundu woterewu ukhoza kukuchititsani misala.Mukamumva, kukhala naye, ndi kuchita naye zinthu, amakupangitsani kuti mumukhulupirire ndi kumumvera chisoni, ndipo mwina mumakayikira kuti mwamuganizira molakwika. choncho musadabwe, zochita zake zovulaza sizili kanthu koma khalidwe lachibadwa limene angachite, ndipo mawu ake aubwenzi sali china koma chinyengo chimene amachilenga.

Pangani nkhope yokwiya

Nkhope yokwiya ya munthu wachinyengo ndi nkhope yobisika, amakaniza kuionetsa kuti asaulule chowonadi cha zoyipa zake zomwe amazibisa kwa iye mwiniyo. chigoba chake podzutsa mkwiyo wake pamaso pa anthu kuti afotokoze momveka bwino zolinga zake zoipa kwa inu ndi Kudzutsa mkwiyo wake wagona pa kunyalanyaza iye, monga iye amaona kuti ndi kunyoza kwa narcissism yake, imene imalamulira khalidwe lake.

chitetezo mtunda mode

Sizingatheke kuti wina azitha kukuchitirani choipa malinga ngati pali mtunda umene umamulepheretsa kuyandikira malire oletsedwa kwa inu, musamudziwitse zambiri za inu ngakhale kuti amapitirizabe kufuna kudziwa zing'onozing'ono zanu, kusuntha. kutali pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndikusiya ulalo wosavuta pakati panu kuti musunge kulemekezana patali.

Mitu ina:

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