Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa mutataya ntchito?

Kutaya ntchito si chinthu chosadziwika bwino.Kutaya ntchito kumayenera kubweretsa mavuto ambiri amalingaliro ndi zovuta zomwe zingakupangitseni kuvutika maganizo ndi kudzipatula, koma khalani oleza mtima.koma pang'onopang'ono , Sizoipa kwambiri, malinga ndi nyuzipepala ya Mirror, mmodzi mwa akatswiri ofunikira kwambiri a maganizo, kutaya ntchito kungakhale chiyambi chabwino, cha moyo wabwino.

Kumene mkazi wina amene anachotsedwa ntchito anatumiza ku nyuzipepala ya ku Britain, kunena m’malemba a kalatayo kuti: “Ndine mkazi wa zaka 40, ndipo ndakhumudwa kwambiri, popeza ndinachotsedwa ntchito mu October. Sindinathe n’komwe kuchita chidwi ndi Khirisimasi, ngakhale kuti mnzanga ndi banja langa anachita zonse zimene akanatha kuti andisangalatse. Zachuma, zinthu zili bwino; Chifukwa bwenzi langa ali ndi ntchito, ndipo akhoza kulipira ndalama zathu, kuphatikizapo ine ndapeza ndalama, zomwe zingandipindulitse ine m'moyo wanga. Koma vuto ndi lakuti, ndinkakonda kwambiri ntchito yanga, ndipo ndakhala kumeneko kwa zaka pafupifupi 10. Ndinapanga gulu langa locheza ndi anthu omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito, ndipo tsopano ndikumva kuti ndatayika. Zimakhala ngati ndikuyambanso zaka 23, ndipo ndilibe chidaliro chochita zimenezo. Ndimachita mantha kwambiri kuti ndisayese, choncho ndinangoyesetsa ndi mtima wonse kupeza ntchito ina kwina. Kukhumudwa Ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito kuyambira ndili ndi zaka XNUMX, ndipo sindikudziwa china chilichonse. Ndimangotulutsa misozi popanda chifukwa, ndipo sindingathe kusangalala. Ndinakhumudwa kuti ndinasiya ntchitoyo, pamene ena anatsala. Ndizosamveka kwa ine, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndimadzimva kuti ndili ndi chiyembekezo, koma zidandisokoneza, chalakwika ndi chiyani?"

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Mwayi wabwino ukukuyembekezerani !!!!!

Colin, katswiri wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu, akuyankha kuti:
“Choyamba, ndikufuna ndikuuzeni kuti maganizo anu ali abwinobwino, ndi chinthu chachikulu kutaya chinthu chimene mwakhala nacho kwa zaka pafupifupi 10, chimene chakhala mbali yaikulu ya moyo wanu. Muli m'gawo losadziwika, lomwe nthawi zonse limakhala lowopsa.
Komabe, kutaya ntchito kungakhalenso mwayi wabwino wochita china chatsopano, ndikusintha moyo wanu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Masiku ano, kutembenuza zaka 17 kumatanthauzanso kuti mukadali wamng'ono, ndi zaka XNUMX zomwe mungapereke kwa olemba ntchito ena.
Ndibwino kuti mutenge nthawi ngati simungathe kupirira, osati kungodzimanganso m'maganizo, koma kungosangalala kuchita zomwe mukufuna. Mwina sudzaupezanso mwayi umenewo ukangobwerera kuntchito, ndipo sindikufuna kuti unong’oneze bondo kuti unataya nthawi n’kumaganizira zakale.”