Momwe mungakhalire munthu wodalirika komanso wokongola

Kodi kudzidalira ndi chiyani?
Ndikuti munthu adziwe bwino za luso lake ndi khalidwe lake labwino.Ndichikhulupiliro cha munthu pa zosankha zake, zolinga zake ndi luso lake.Anthu ambiri amakhulupilira kuti kudalira kumagwirizana ndi kudzikuza ndi kupitirira.Ndi chikhulupiriro chokha cha luso. ndikutha kuchita bwino ndikupeza zomwe mukufuna, koma chidaliro sikutanthauza kuti chilichonse chomwe mukunena kapena kuchita, mumachichita bwino, mukakumana ndi zolakwa muyenera kuvomereza cholakwikacho. ndi kukakamira, kufikira kuti sikulingaliridwa kukhala chidaliro.Kumatengedwa ngati kuyika umunthu.Munthu wodzidalira yekha satchedwa.Kudalira ndi khalidwe lomwe limakula ndikukula ndi kukula kwa munthu, koma munthu. Sanabadwe, ndipo ndi khalidwe limene limakhala mwa iye, ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti si chibadwa cha chibadwa.
Kodi mumadzidalira bwanji? 
1- Kusamalira maonekedwe akunja ndi kukongola, si zovala zomwe zimapereka phindu kwa munthu, koma zovala zokongola zimakupatsirani kumverera komwe mumadzidalira, omwe angasamalire kukongola kwathu koma tokha.

2- Kuyenda nthawi zonse kumasonyeza kudzidalira kwanu.

3- Mapangidwe a thupi lanu mukayimirira ndikukhala, sinthani msana wanu mowongoka ndikukweza mutu wanu, koma osati kwambiri, komanso kukhala maso anu kwa omwe mumalankhula nawo mwachindunji, izi zimakhudza ena ndikukupatsani chidaliro kwa inu nokha.

4- Kudzitamandira ndikuwerengera zabwino zanu ndi zabwino zanu kuti mumve kuti ndinu wofunika komanso kudzidalira kumakupatsani chidaliro chonse.
5- Mukakhala mu lecture kapena kwina kulikonse khalani pamzere woyamba, ambiri aife timasakasaka malo omalizira popeza izi zimaonetsa kusadzidalira. kutsogolo kudzakuthandizani kuchotsa mantha, nkhawa ndi mikangano.

6- Uyenera kuyamikila ena kuti asakuchitire zoipa ndikudziona ngati wopanda pake, motero umachepetsa kudzidalira.

7-Polankhula lankhula mokweza ndi mokweza, ndipo kamvekedwe kako kamakhala komveka, ena amamvetsetsa zomwe ukunena, koma osakweza mawu kuti ena akuwone ndikutopetsa zokambirana zanu.

8- Gawani zokondweretsa ndi zowawa zawo ndi ena, kuti mumve kufunikira kwa kupezeka kwanu, ndipo kumawonjezera kudzidalira kwanu.